"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Regurgitation of an old thought

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Intelligence is loosely defined as: the ability to think and learn. It’s not the thinking part most of us have problems with. We sit, read, and think about the stuff on this website, with time passing by until we finally get it. But, my friends, let’s use our full intelligence to truly get one point, the one I believe to be the most important, thought about and learned. Here it is:

Focus on your dreams! (Pook)

I know that some of you don’t like Pook, but forget about him. Think about what he is saying. He is saying pay attention to your dreams. Forget about women, family, and all of what causes you frustration. Don’t react to the statement, sit and really think about it. Focus on what you really want right now and in the future. Do this and all else will fall into place, for dreams are what truly carries us through the days, months, and years. It’s true the may change, but you are still in control. Only you have the power to change your life.

I know that some of you are saying, “But what about…” Let’s take an extreme case of this. Consider the guy who’s married, then divorced. Wasted years of his life in what he thought he wanted only to find out that it wouldn’t work. Should he just give up and stop following his dreams? How about reconciling to never having another woman to be with? Is his life over? I say not. Not unless he gives up on them. It is his choice to strive for them or not.

YOU HAVE THAT CHOICE TOO…

Sit, think, and decide what your dreams are. Too many people skip this part only to find they have fallen into what they didn’t want. If you know what you want and can imagine having it, you’re half way there.

ADKdj
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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