RickTheToad
Moderator
This video came up in my rec. feeds I guess because I was watching some Chris Hogan and Dave Ramsey videos. Unreal that the dude had to partition his garage just to have his own space in their home.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Regulated to the garage for his mancave... Geez
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
backseatjuan
Banned
I believe it's a wrong observation. Guy build himself an office in his garage.
RickTheToad
Moderator
No, I believe you are mistaken. He build his garage into an office. I know where this dude lives. It's freakin freezing in the winters and you'll die in the summer. The garage, as with most garages, have no heat and no AC. HE was regulated to the garage. Not a side room, not the basement, not the attack. The garage with no heat or AC. Yes, I am sure wifey gave him a space heater for the winter months.. @backseatjuan, I sometimes wonder about your blue pill conditioning. First, the girlfriend wiping her bottom with your undergarments, now this.. ;'p
backseatjuan
Banned
I don't see a problem with heat and AC, a split system solves it easily. The guy was not thrown by his wife into garage to live, the guy had himself build an office in his garage in order to save money on renting an actual office. You are mistaking in your observation.
can't he put a ac or a heater on then?
not always what a guy do is because of a woman, maybe he also have kids and want to leave his home for then to sleep then he build a place so he can play or do whatever?
considerating then a guy only do things because of a woman is kinda sad, and even if that is the case, that is his problem, also you should consider he only did this so he could put on youtube and try to get some money from it? strange things happen not alwyas because of woman, a lot of times because of money
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Look at this soyboy beta with the thick framed glasses and soyface. Who the f builds an office in a GARAGE. Thats where alpha stuff like your bad ass car and power tools and projects get setup. Not your soy latte and webcam while then prius is parked outside.
RickTheToad
Moderator
You have a right to your opinion. However, one would argue, he could had built an office in other areas of the home which already have heat and/or AC. Thus, there would no need to spend 2k for a split system and install, and spend another grand or two for another wall edition within the garage. Which, now a car is outside because they lost the use of one garage port for his "office". But, again, you are entitled to your opinion.
backseatjuan
Banned
You a right to diluted view of reality.
RickTheToad
Moderator
Not really. I think I know a think or two about construction. I was in construction for several years after the military. This was not cost effective at all. He was thrown out of their house and regulated to the garage. Most likely, his half of the garage too.
RickTheToad
Moderator
Very true @Julian. Very true.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
RickTheToad
Moderator
If one has to add a wall, insulation, wood, a split system, loss of one port of the garage so now he has to park outside, etc. How is that cheaper than being inside the home? None of this would had been necessary. He's a pastor too. Doesn't a pastor already have an office at the Church? IDK. This reminds me when Carey from King of Queens regulated Doug to the garage for his mancave.
backseatjuan
Banned
Why not have an office in the living room, oh no, the kids get in the way! Dang! Why not have an office in a separate room, oh no, strangers would have to enter the house and meet the family, privacy issues! Dang! Looks like garage is the most logical choice!
By the way, he is not a pastor, he does not have a church, he is a motivational speaker.
By the way, he is not a pastor, he does not have a church, he is a motivational speaker.
RickTheToad
Moderator
Well, you are incorrect, as he's a pastor at Two Cities Church (https://twocities.church/). As for the location, they have these things called den's, attics, and basements. Just something to consider.
backseatjuan
Banned
You know so much about this guy's situation, I'm wondering if he is indeed you. lul
RickTheToad
Moderator
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Did she cvck him too?
RickTheToad
Moderator
I don't believe so. However, you never see them kissing too much. Then again, it was show back in the 90s.
aray808311
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haha im very confused