Regularly meet loads of new girls - where?

[Huffman]

Partly because I have high standards, and partly because not every hot girl is into me, it takes forever for me to find a girl that really kinda ticks the boxes.

I'd say maybe 3-4 a year that I'd even consider potential for a girlfriend. Obviously often it doesn't work out. I have random lays in between. My looks are not bad and I know a thing or two (thanks SoSuave). But it's not fulfilling for me.

So I figured I just have to start meeting way more people. I really need to find a never-ending source of pretty girls. I hate clubbing, so maybe some kind of activities? Here's what I've got:
- Rock climbing / indoor: quite good. I enjoy it, girls are hot and mostly down to earth. Need to climb less and approach more
- Meetup: sucks in my town. Sometimes there are good ones (museums), but most are weinerfests, and guys and girls both are from the bottom of the gene pool.
- Bars, on my own: I usually have a good night, but I haven't been able to pull alot. I do seem to do well with girls looking for a ONS.
- Parties: my friends are all ~30yrs and there's mostly couples at those partys... uhhh. Although I seem to do extremely well with my friend's little cousins :nervous:
- Friends: the best girls I've had I met through mutual friends. On top of that, they offered the least resistance and did much of the work for me. It would be great to join some large community with regular activities and parties... but where?

A lot of times, I feel energized, confident, ready to pounce and kill! But I don't know where to go. So a whole week passes without anything happening.

What can you recommend?

 

[jurry]

I feel ya man, now that I'm older nothing compares with the close proximity and lost inhibitions of college years, and I suspect it never will.

Outside of work and friends, you're kind of limited. OLD isnt a bad option it is entirely different than social circle or cold approach though, more of a shotgun approach.

All about having a big group and being in a community, something which is a lot harder to find as you get older. Move to a big city maybe?

 

[skinnyguy]

Ya, I live in the bay so it is realllly hard to find a quality woman.

Meetup - sausagefest
Bars - sausagefest and fat girls

I wish I lived in Florida where you get whacked with hot women just walking down the street. Here it's just a bunch of FOB engineers.

 

[om1xr]

First if you are into running then i can't recommend morning runs enough. you are going to meet the hottest and fittest girls out there.

Second you mentioned Social circles, they can be a goldmines but the trick is to enter more social circles and hang out with different groups.

Third: I don't know if you go out much or you are indoors man but 80% of time I meet hot/interesting girls and people in general just by showing up and accepting friends and acquaintances invites even if it's just a walk or a simple coffee. Just get out more and simply show up and great coincidences are going to flow more.

 

[DaddyLongShanks]

What if you where a bartender or a bouncer? What about at a car dealership? What about a personal trainer? What about a masseuse? What about at happy hours? Many cities have a "hot night" happy hour for the up and coming professionals.

What about salsa dancing? You can dance with several babes in a night...

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Starbucks coffee shops in general. Places you can hang out in that attract a decent amount of traffic. Dancing or yoga classes? Gym?

 

[DaddyLongShanks]

Starbucks coffee shops in general. Places you can hang out in that attract a decent amount of traffic. Dancing or yoga classes? Gym?

Yoga class is an awesome idea because it's going to be like 80% females...

Another one is salsa class. You will get into close proximity with a few babes during the class. And like I said in the clubs you will too.
School. Can take college courses if you have graduate will put you into proximity with folks who have a similar goal or need to fulfill.

 

[Huffman]

Another one is salsa class.

Good idea. I'm not a beginner though and advanced courses are usually for couples. But I live in a decent city, so I'll search around if there are places where you can just join a saturday night salsa party as a single (or possibly with a wingman). Spot on, been meaning to do that but forgot! Thanks!

Also running is good, but how would I (reasonably) stop a running girl? Loads of pretty butts wiggling around in the park here!

Cold approaches at Starbucks, not my thing.

Entering more social circles: have to focus on this more. I'm arrogant, and I suck at making new friends these days.

Thanks everybody, if you got more keep em coming!

 

[DaddyLongShanks]

Good idea. I'm not a beginner though and advanced courses are usually for couples. But I live in a decent city, so I'll search around if there are places where you can just join a saturday night salsa party as a single (or possibly with a wingman). Spot on, been meaning to do that but forgot! Thanks!

Also running is good, but how would I (reasonably) stop a running girl? Loads of pretty butts wiggling around in the park here!

Cold approaches at Starbucks, not my thing.

Entering more social circles: have to focus on this more. I'm arrogant, and I suck at making new friends these days.

Thanks everybody, if you got more keep em coming!

Look for a Salsa meetup group. I found some when I was working in NJ, and also in KS. I moved back to TX and going to find one here too.