"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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regrets sure do suck

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Well very so often now i go to the school library to do homework. Often i see this peer tutor that is there . Shes like a 6/7 in my book, but i think there is something about her that interests me. Ive seen her giving me IOI a few times this week. I asked her for help, started a little convo but didn't get to properly introduce myself. So i feel like i ripped my self off by not approaching her. Now my gameplan has changed , i need to find another way to get to her and work my magic( if i have any :confused:)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You did approach her man. Count that as a victory for having the balls to do it in the first place!

Just because you didn't introduce yourself on the first interaction isn't the end of the world. Do it on the second, or the third. Or wait until she asks. It's not THAT important until you really want to start ramping up the game.

And if you are worried about looking dumb by introducing yourself second time around; Just start chatting to her, then bust out a "Sorry, I lost your name..." When she introduces herself, you can flip it back.

From there, just continue as you would. You're doing fine.
 
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Regrets?? Yeah, I'm 44 y/o
 
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