"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Regarding Myspace, Facebook, etc.

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I haven't been here in awhile but people AIM me sometimes and ask me questions about Myspace, Facebook etc. I want to let everyone know, feel free to AIM or MSN me about these questions, thanks.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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selfmademob said:
I haven't been here in awhile but people AIM me sometimes and ask me questions about Myspace, Facebook etc. I want to let everyone know, feel free to AIM or MSN me about these questions, thanks.


I think we'll pass on that offer
 

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What would this forum be for then? Justpost the questions and answers here so we may all benefit.
 
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