"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Regarding attention wh0res. Karma WILL come to her.

Zapp Brannigan

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I know how s**tty it feels to be taken by an attention wh0re. The anger you feel for being used, how bad it feels that you have to question your judgement on women, and how it damages your confidence to for believing that she actually liked you. I’m here to say that what goes around comes around, and damn is it sweet.

There’s one who has been trying to string me along for the better part of a year now. I saw through about a year ago and have been steering clear of her for awhile , and it looks like karma finally came at her full swing. To make a long story short she was your typical modern attention wh0re. Had an AFC boyfriend who kissed her ass that she took advantage of, and like all of them she was chasing other guys, and entertaining all the male attention she could.

But things took a complete u-turn. The boyfriend finally saw her for what she was, and dumped her. Him dumping her seemed to make it clear to all of the orbiters and everyone that she was bad news, and now none of them want anything to do with her. Whenever I see her she’s trying extra hard now to get my attention, and I of course never give in because I know what she is. That look when an attention wh0re becomes desperate, and is trying hard to get you to stare is hilarious, especially when they see that you’re going to continue to ignore them. Seriously, you feel like a badass, and then you have to hold back everything to not laugh.

If you realize that you’ve been taken by an attention wh0re, here’s what you need to do. Forgive, yes she’s a b**ch who won’t change, but you can’t go through life holding onto petty s**t like that. Next, move on and ignore her completely. You see her out don’t acknowledge or validate, show that you’re a man of worth who won’t be used. Show that you’re happy and don’t care about her or what happened.

I know how frustrating it is to be used, but rest assured that karma does exist, and will eventually get her.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Lol I can actually attest to this. Except it didn't take me a year for it to come back and bite both chicks in the ass (rather much much sooner). Both ended up crying over me. Both ended up telling me I was the best guy they've ever met and was actually what they were looking for (not sure how true that is considering the first one was when I was a major afc). Both ended up having losing some of their friends and a lot of respect in their social group afterwards.

And here is the best part:

The second chick who actually did quite like me and was infatuated with me did have a boyfriend. This 'boyfriend' just so turns out to be one of, if not the biggest ******* to me and my brother when we were younger because we were on the same hockey team and we were way newer than him. He is a sucker too. I grew bigger and got ripped. Became a bigger, better, faster, and stronger hockey player than him despite him having 4+ years more experience than us. That was the greatest part ever.

You're attention ***** gf actually loves me ----. I pushed her aside cuz she ain't worth it, but if I really wanted to, she'd be DTF ANY time. And you don't even know about that either. But you will bud, she'll feel guilty and tell you about it soon enough. This '**** you' message is from me and my brother both.

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narcissist said:
How can you assert karma exists? What is your empirical evidence?
A lot of it is social echoes and repurcussions. Karma is not perfect.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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narcissist said:
How can you assert karma exists? What is your empirical evidence?
Karma as we understand it exists because there is no "I." What you do upon "another," you do upon "yourself."
 
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