"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Refusing to wack it works

everywomanshero

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Since I started refusing to masterbate, I mean total refusal, my lay rates are way up guys. I just busted 3 nuts tonight after laying a different chick 2x the night before.

When I used to masterbate, I probably would've done one each and that's it. One of the best things you can do to get busy living is stop wacking it. Life is short.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Since my breakup i decided to stop wacking it, i figured it was counter productive...to finding a new girl.

I havent touched my peter in over a week.

Noticed a huge increase in sex drive.

My lifts in the gym and desire to work out are 10 fold. I feel like an animal when i workout.

I notice im more alert. I initiate conversation with almost anyone.

My confidence has soared to the point where my head dosent look at the ground ever. Its always up shoulders and chest out. I feel like im reverting to some sort of alpha wolf or something.

But i havent gotten laid yet. Just started looking for new prospects. Should i Jerk it or wait till i get laid? I know it boosts your test levels x2 then peaks at 7 days then im not sure if it goes down or how bad it is not to. I think this is the longest i have ever gone in my life. I feel different not bad great but i dont wanna fuk anything up.

For whatever girl i happen to land in the near future. I dont think she will be able to walk for days.
 

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Originally posted by Social Engineering
For whatever girl i happen to land in the near future. I dont think she will be able to walk for days.
You you might bust a nut in 4 seconds... :rolleyes:
 
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I can remeber going for 5 days then meeting up with my girl and we went 2 hours before i busted.

Busting is more of a mental thing if your talking about pre mature busting with no control

Its all in the mind my friend. I have masterbated for over an hour before without losing control.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I cant sleep sometimes if I dont wack it.
 

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Originally posted by Social Engineering
I can remeber going for 5 days then meeting up with my girl and we went 2 hours before i busted.

Busting is more of a mental thing if your talking about pre mature busting with no control

Its all in the mind my friend. I have masterbated for over an hour before without losing control.

5 Days ain't much. Especially if you wacked it like 20 times b4 those 5 days. Try going 5 weeks and lets see if you last 2 hours or 2 minutes :)
 

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Reward

You can reward yourself by having 1 wack for every successful score or something. Yes, I do believe (in my case) I tend to bust a nut faster when I first stop. If you give it a little time, it all equals out. If you wack it too much it may be even worse -- you can have to actively engauge your mind to stay hard.... I find that very distracting.
 

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Remember what happens to muscles that don't get used. I am trying to limit masterbating to twice a week. That way I am still highly motivated but not completely out of control horney.

fan27
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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i whack it out of boredom. i'm home alone, there's porn on the computer, what's a guy to do?

when i took a week long trip to Boston with my family i didn't whack at all, mostly because i stayed busy all the time.

i'm gona try this no whacking thing for 2 weeks. see how it works for me. hopefully I last that long.
 

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Originally posted by fan27
Remember what happens to muscles that don't get used. I am trying to limit masterbating to twice a week. That way I am still highly motivated but not completely out of control horney.

fan27
what muscles are you referring to, k thx goodbye.
 

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i think he's either referring to the "penis muscle" which isn’t a muscle, or the muscle used to actually whack the penis, I guess the chest and arm muscles. I’m no doctor so I don’t know names.

i think we can safely say that not jerking off for a couple of weeks wont cause any serious side effects (aside from volatile hornyness)
 

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I've gone as long as 3 weeks without recently. Didn't really notice any increase in energy. Just occasional lack of concentration.
 
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The penis isnt a muscle its part of a reproductive organ... there is no muscle fibers on the penis to even break down and rebuild... aka build muscle...

if that was possible wouldnt everyone have a HUGE PENIS if we could work it... its part of an organ my friends.

Ive wacked off ever since i can remeber self learning to wack. In my teens like 4-5 times a day every day like it was going out of style. Now that im in my early 20's and ive had numerous sexual partners. I have never abstained from masterbation.

Weather out of bordom, to go to sleep, to practice, just to feel good, being drunk and high jerking off.. you name it ive found a reason to jerk off.

Its always made me sleepy and tired same after sex im beat and could lay down and just take a nap. Now that i havent its weird. I don t freel a need. I personally feel my test levels have increased.

I just lift harder in the gym, i feel insane amounts of confidence, head and chest always out (not even intentioinal) i just feel animalistic. Around females i just dont hesitate nor think i just act.

Maby its all in my head but i kinda like this new found power and i dont wanna lose it by busting a quick nut. Id rather get laid then doing it solo. Gives me a reason to hunt out a girl.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by Social Engineering

sounds like you lack self control your a slave to your penis... its the other way around master yourself and you master woman
Sounds like you need to stop assuming what others are thinking, it makes you look like a moron.
 

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I've been 2 months with no whacking or sex. The first 2 weeks are the hardest then after 1 month you start to go crazy, you have some days where sex is all on your mind all day, and you start getting hardons really easily in public. I was driving one time saw a girl walking on the sidewalk. I parked my car got out, followed her all the way to the street light so i could get a chance to talk to her, I did and she rejected. As i was walking like 1/4 mile back to my car i had just noticed what deep trouble i could be in. I just noticed she was walking from school(school wasnt out yet) there were hundreds of people that probably saw me approach her, I must;ve scared the crap outa her and she probably went home and told somebody.

You can get real desperate at times so much that you dont realize what you are doing. I say only whack like 3-4 times a month. It turns you into some animal, which is a good thing if you already have a girl to get busy with, but if not you're gonna get yourself in some real nasty trouble.
 

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I can relate to the animalistic feeling of going no sex or jerking for a week or more. As or increased test levels, i have no idea. Haven't really gone without for more than a week recently. I'll give it a go and see how it affect my workout and behavior around women.

I get distracted though. When i go without for a week or more i start having horny dreams and usually wake up in the morning with a megaboner and a crazy lust to screw the brains out of the first woman that passes my way ;-)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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