baffledking
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Alone and broke, you say? "Great, I've got drinks at my place and room for two."
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Refusing to buy a drink
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Dynamic
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Wrong woman
I'm guessing that your game was weak that night anyway, most women don't try to manipulate a strong male presence. Your actions and that you are even thinking about it anymore are evidence.
Believe you can have any woman you want. Whatever it takes to do that... do it. Then you will consciously stay away from such women because you'll be too busy seducing the cream of the crop.
Your problem is that you are trying to get that particular girl, to do something that will impress her. The fact that she's being a brat when you don't give her her way (which is giving into her manipulations and getting nothing in return) should be your first sign that you want nothing to do with this woman.randomusername said:
I'm guessing that your game was weak that night anyway, most women don't try to manipulate a strong male presence. Your actions and that you are even thinking about it anymore are evidence.
Believe you can have any woman you want. Whatever it takes to do that... do it. Then you will consciously stay away from such women because you'll be too busy seducing the cream of the crop.
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Damn, I should have used that but, she'd have to leave the this morning and not steal anything. I try to remember to lock up my valuables before I go out and I usually try to get it back to her place for sex not mine, if possible.baffledking said:
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i never really thought much about it, it just happened when I was at a happy hour. i've got a good memory.Dynamic said:
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It is simple, IF you are attracted to her say, "I'll buy you drinks at our next encounter - what are your digits?"
If She declines then say, "Stupid Ho, tricks are for kids!!"
If She declines then say, "Stupid Ho, tricks are for kids!!"
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I bought drinks for 2 girls once in my life.
I was at the bar with 2 friends. It was my turn to pick up a tab. One of the friends start chatting up 2 HB5's (not even attractive, but plain to less than plain). This friend says something about wanting to order shots from the bartender. I say PUT IT ON MY TAB.
Then after that the girls look to me and say hi nice to meet you and walk away. The other friend says "Dude you just bought them shots and they just walk away!" I said "what? I paid for THEIR SHOTS? That's BS! I thought we were getting a round for ourselves!"
That was the first and last time I bought random women drinks. I never get asked and I'm sure not volunteering. Last time I was at the bar I saw this HB in a popular bar for young HBs.. She was with the short fat bald ugly guy who always shows up. I was like, she's with him? Bet he's buying the drinks. Sure enough, he laid the money down ad they both got shots. Pathetic. Both of them.
I was at the bar with 2 friends. It was my turn to pick up a tab. One of the friends start chatting up 2 HB5's (not even attractive, but plain to less than plain). This friend says something about wanting to order shots from the bartender. I say PUT IT ON MY TAB.
Then after that the girls look to me and say hi nice to meet you and walk away. The other friend says "Dude you just bought them shots and they just walk away!" I said "what? I paid for THEIR SHOTS? That's BS! I thought we were getting a round for ourselves!"
That was the first and last time I bought random women drinks. I never get asked and I'm sure not volunteering. Last time I was at the bar I saw this HB in a popular bar for young HBs.. She was with the short fat bald ugly guy who always shows up. I was like, she's with him? Bet he's buying the drinks. Sure enough, he laid the money down ad they both got shots. Pathetic. Both of them.
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A simple "sure, do you like water?" will suffice
Production6257
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I'd probably say "Yea, sure! Bartender, I'll have a Miller Lite." Then when I get it I'd just grab it and walk past her with my middle finger in the air, probably with a little smile on my face so-as not to come across as an uptight a-hole.
I can't stand those ****y b!tches at parties and bars. I have heard many girls talking about how they just go to bars with no money and use guys to buy them their drinks. They just laugh about how pathetically easy it is.
I can't stand those ****y b!tches at parties and bars. I have heard many girls talking about how they just go to bars with no money and use guys to buy them their drinks. They just laugh about how pathetically easy it is.
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I make it a point NOT to buy drinks for girls.....but you know what, rules are meant to be broken depending on how you feel.
i like to have a good time....not everytime you buy a girl a drink is some sort of manipulation or scheme to get free drinks from you...obviously it does happen and even worse is when dude thinks it will get her in better graces. I'm a generous guy and if I'm drinking and having a good time and I want to buy a girl a drink, I will. Do I think it will bring me closer to getting further with her? no. maybe it will, but that's not my point. The point is to enjoy the experience and have a good time. I'll buy a girl a drink if I want to.....its just a feeling of intuition to be honest.
i like to have a good time....not everytime you buy a girl a drink is some sort of manipulation or scheme to get free drinks from you...obviously it does happen and even worse is when dude thinks it will get her in better graces. I'm a generous guy and if I'm drinking and having a good time and I want to buy a girl a drink, I will. Do I think it will bring me closer to getting further with her? no. maybe it will, but that's not my point. The point is to enjoy the experience and have a good time. I'll buy a girl a drink if I want to.....its just a feeling of intuition to be honest.