"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Alright guys this is one to think about.Think about it a second how do you feel about girls that have the same level of looks as you are you automatically drawn to them,do you like them more than women not as good looking or more good looking than you,do you like them more in the long run.How exactly do you feel about women that are a reflection of you a mirror image of you how does this affect you.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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snorida44x said:
My advice is to go after the women that you find attractive, don't base it on if they have the same level of looks as you do.
Guys should no doubt.I was asking about how guys felt in general about women that look like them this is not about me at all.
 

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I was asking about how guys felt in general about women that look like them this is not about me at all.
If a woman looked like me, i'd be little worried....I mean, who knows what will pop out when you pull the skirt down.


You can't compare women and men. Especialy in the looks department. It's like apples to oranges.
you could be a 7 to one woman, and a 3 to another....same goes the other way around....
 
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