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Reducing Risk of STDS, oral sex?

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First, I'm grateful for the information on this site.

Here is my question. How are folks reducing the risk of getting STD's for oral sex? If the idea is to spin plates, get laid, obviously there is going to be a higher risk of catching something.

Obviously, wear condoms when having intercourse. But, what about for oral sex? My thought is that if I were to catch something, then my game would obviously significantly be negatively impacted.

Thanks for your thoughts.
 

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She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

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Never caught anything, been sucked by probably over a hundred but less than 200. Vaginal sex on the other hand, better to wrap it up. I try to let women know that I have never came from being blown so I really don't prefer that she please me that way. Of course, it's bizarre to her and I believe that Most women would rather blow you than fvck you. Then she can go shopping at Target whatnot afterwards. It doesn't do a damn thing for me though, so I try to minimize no condom on my junk as much as I can. Another issue is right-fitting condoms cause sometimes it slips down and you have half your pen!s exposed to her vag.
 

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Thanks man.

What about going down on her? Any concerns of catching something there?

I ask because I'm getting out of a long term relationship where I didn't have to worry about that stuff as much.

Does anybody use the dental damn stuff when going down on her, right? And Nobody wraps their d1ck for oral?
 

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First, I'm grateful for the information on this site.

Here is my question. How are folks reducing the risk of getting STD's for oral sex? If the idea is to spin plates, get laid, obviously there is going to be a higher risk of catching something.

Obviously, wear condoms when having intercourse. But, what about for oral sex? My thought is that if I were to catch something, then my game would obviously significantly be negatively impacted.

Thanks for your thoughts.
You cannot catch HIV. I that base Is covered.

If she has nasty **** on her face, don't do it. Obv!

Do what I do. Wear a condom. When you're about to nut, instruct her to open her mouth, and finish accordingly. Make sure she takes that last drop. You know when you finish.
 

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Does anybody use the dental damn stuff when going down on her, right? And Nobody wraps their d1ck for oral?
Do you understand how disgusting women are these days? And you put your face there?



Why not just go to a homo bar?
 

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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Never caught anything, been sucked by probably over a hundred but less than 200. Vaginal sex on the other hand, better to wrap it up. I try to let women know that I have never came from being blown so I really don't prefer that she please me that way. Of course, it's bizarre to her and I believe that Most women would rather blow you than fvck you. Then she can go shopping at Target whatnot afterwards. It doesn't do a damn thing for me though, so I try to minimize no condom on my junk as much as I can. Another issue is right-fitting condoms cause sometimes it slips down and you have half your pen!s exposed to her vag.
Why would they rather give head than fvck?
 

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Hi Stoic,
You should know that HPV infects 20 million plus Americans...Sleep around and you will be exposed...For Men it is implicated in some pretty nasty Cancers...There is some good news,you can get a vaccine in three shots from your Doctor...I have had the shot,you are crazy if you don't get it too...Why not message "Collossus"he is a trained Doctor and has profound knowledge in these matters.
 

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Hi Stoic,
You should know that HPV infects 20 million plus Americans...Sleep around and you will be exposed...For Men it is implicated in some pretty nasty Cancers...There is some good news,you can get a vaccine in three shots from your Doctor...I have had the shot,you are crazy if you don't get it too...Why not message "Collossus"he is a trained Doctor and has profound knowledge in these matters.
The US shot has some pretty bad side effects. The one with cancer is still pretty rare. As for oral, hard to say. You can wash you penis with alcohol or hydrogen peroxide, but it's a risk. Heck, I know a friends son (12) who caught gladiator herpes from his gym team. That's w/o sex. It's a gamble these days. You just have think before you act. Just do not munch on her pus w/o a std screen. That is how much men catch HPV.
 

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Why would they rather give head than fvck?

They are lazy. Plus, if they are not in to it, they can just suck you off, spit it out and be done with it. For pus, they have to be turned on and wet or it will hurt really bad. Since 25%+ of women are on some sort of anti-depressant, that lowers their sex drive and makes them dryer than the Planet Mercury when it's facing the Sun.
 

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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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Hi All,
My Doctor a Navy Doctor most of his life told me,the biggest STD was Hepatitis B...But looking back over a long Svex life,the amazing thing is the number of Guys that are bullet Proof,I have an acquaintance who is the greatest Pants Man Known,he is in his fifties now never married maybe a new Lady every week,into swinging Clubs whatever goes,never wears a condom,yet clean as a whistle...goes two ways,another acquaintance has Hepatitis C slept unprotected with a Woman for three years,she never contracted it...guess some blokes are just born under a lucky Star LOL.
 

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Why would they rather give head than fvck?
I used to wonder this until I realized how much more willing a woman was to giving a ******* than having sex. Prob has something to do with the emotional connection, and like @R.U.G. stated the time/energy it takes to get prepared.

Some women also take pride in how good of a BJ they give. I'm just complimentary to them and hope for repeat interactions.
 

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I used to wonder this until I realized how much more willing a woman was to giving a ******* than having sex. Prob has something to do with the emotional connection, and like @R.U.G. stated the time/energy it takes to get prepared.

Some women also take pride in how good of a BJ they give. I'm just complimentary to them and hope for repeat interactions.
Sex alot of times will be quicker and once it's started things will warm up. It also will cause an emotional connection to occur due to oxytocin. Unless they detest the person. You can't get that emotional connection from oral alone.
 

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Sex alot of times will be quicker and once it's started things will warm up. It also will cause an emotional connection to occur due to oxytocin. Unless they detest the person. You can't get that emotional connection from oral alone.
I've been told the in womenese, they do not consider oral sex or anal sex actual sex. Only when the penis is in the vag is it considered real sex to women. Yea, backwards as ever.

I'm pretty sure a woman can get an emotional connection through anal since women can climax through anal if you or them are rubbing their **** / labia area (depends on which part of their vaginal anatomy gets them off. They get off; thus oxytocin is released.
 

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I've been told the in womenese, they do not consider oral sex or anal sex actual sex. Only when the penis is in the vag is it considered real sex to women. Yea, backwards as ever.

I'm pretty sure a woman can get an emotional connection through anal since women can climax through anal if you or them are rubbing their **** / labia area (depends on which part of their vaginal anatomy gets them off. They get off; thus oxytocin is released.
Giving head or taking head was a way women used so they could give or get pleasure and they won't gain a emotional connection they were avoidant of. I can imagine a emotional connection could be formed anally because they have to give of themselves.

I knew women didn't count oral in their sex count I didn't know they didn't count anal. I also learned they throw out one night stands. Some women throw out guys they only fvcked twice.
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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Giving head or taking head was a way women used so they could give or get pleasure and they won't gain a emotional connection they were avoidant of. I can imagine a emotional connection could be formed anally because they have to give of themselves.

I knew women didn't count oral in their sex count I didn't know they didn't count anal. I also learned they throw out one night stands. Some women throw out guys they only fvcked twice.
Some Asian women, Latin women and Arabic women do not consider anal as sex so they can be offered to another man as a virgin. Thus, technically their pus is virgin, but mouth and a-s-s-; not so much. Again, ******** = zero sense.
 

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Some Asian women, Latin women and Arabic women do not consider anal as sex so they can be offered to another man as a virgin. Thus, technically their pus is virgin, but mouth and a-s-s-; not so much. Again, ******** = zero sense.
Some women cheat on their man by giving head cause they don't count it. So they get to have "fun" without cheating.
 

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Some women cheat on their man by giving head cause they don't count it. So they get to have "fun" without cheating.
At one time in the world, that was considered a felony or be stoned. I am very much against adultery and cheating. If you are going to cheat, why keep the person in the relationship? Have at least some morals. You wouldn't believe how many times on OLD married women reached out. It's pathetic. I just couldn't do it.
 

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At one time in the world, that was considered a felony or be stoned. I am very much against adultery and cheating. If you are going to cheat, why keep the person in the relationship? Have at least some morals. You wouldn't believe how many times on OLD married women reached out. It's pathetic. I just couldn't do it.
It's easier to pound a married than a single.

Also you said some cultures don't count anal so they can cheat anally and throw that out.

I found a set of females that don't count one night stands and others who say if you didn't hit more than TWICE it doesn't count.
 

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It's easier to pound a married than a single.

Also you said some cultures don't count anal so they can cheat anally and throw that out.

I found a set of females that don't count one night stands and others who say if you didn't hit more than TWICE it doesn't count.
It was in the news recently a husband caught his wife cheating in their bed during the act and shot them both dead. I'll pass. I like living. Not ready for a dirt nap yet.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

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