"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Redskins Discontinued Cheerleader Squad

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The writing was already on the wall the minute they dressed up 250+ lb masculine men in pink to support women's cancer causes rather than men's cancer causes for a sport that has a predominantly male audience.

You know feminists would be in a uproar if we allowed males into a Miss Universe pageant and had them rename the contest to Universe Pageant. I mean it's only fair, right?(not necessarily right though)

Things are too one sided these days thanks to weak men in power that allowed this to happen over the years. Men need to learn to put their foot down for these idiotic causes or movements.

That pic infuriates me. Im snarling at my phone. What the fark
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Also, the actual gay/trans rate isn't as high as they claim it to be. It's probably 2-3%.
According to this article, 20% of millennials identify as LGBTQ. I find it hard to believe that one in five people are like this naturally, I really think this has to do with these kids growing up in a time where this lifestyle is being encouraged, and glorified. I noticed this from working with younger people, they seemed to think there was something "cool" about it, and heroic.

https://www.nbcnews.com/feature/nbc-out/survey-20-percent-millennials-identify-lgbtq-n740791
 

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Football is under immense pressure from all sides to make changes. IMO, football as we know it today won't exist in 20 years. Football will still be around, but the game will morph to emphasive speed and athletic abilty rather than strenght and bursts of violence in the trenches. I played back in the early 90's when there was zero concern for player safety or social justice.
 

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Cheerleading squads used to be coed, so this is just a return to the good old days. George W. Bush was a cheerleader at Yale.

You could also flip this around as men taking women's jobs.
There is a difference between a cheerleading squad and a dance squad. I have no problem with a coed cheerleading squad (men need to be in the group so as to hold up & catch the chicks) - but male dance squad members? NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! :mad::mad::mad::mad:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The steelers dont have any cheerleaders and im fine with it. I always felt they add nothing to the game.
Yes, but the typical game is a few seconds of action followed by a half-minute of waiting. The dance squad is always a nice way to fill in the gap.
 

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How about Washington Social Justice Warriors?
 

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Football is under immense pressure from all sides to make changes. IMO, football as we know it today won't exist in 20 years. Football will still be around, but the game will morph to emphasive speed and athletic abilty rather than strenght and bursts of violence in the trenches. I played back in the early 90's when there was zero concern for player safety or social justice.
I don't know where football will be if feminists, helicopter parents, women keep hammering the CTE issue and blow it out of proportions through media. I could even see it transitioning to flag football if the CTE issues get out of hand. I'm a parent and see this currently at the school level. Some schools are offering both flag and touch football now.

If feminists had their way, it would transition over to flag football with female player participation and go co-ed. :down:
 

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I don't know where football will be if feminists, helicopter parents, women keep hammering the CTE issue and blow it out of proportions through media. I could even see it transitioning to flag football if the CTE issues get out of hand. I'm a parent and see this currently at the school level. Some schools are offering both flag and touch football now.

If feminists had their way, it would transition over to flag football with female player participation and go co-ed. :down:
This is mostly speculation, but I believe the game will eventually morph into a 7 vs 7 competition focused on speed and agility rather than hard hitting and trench warfare. 11 man football will be relagated to video games.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This is mostly speculation, but I believe the game will eventually morph into a 7 vs 7 competition focused on speed and agility rather than hard hitting and trench warfare. 11 man football will be relagated to video games.
Yeah that could be a possiblity too. In that case, it will be more like soccer...
 

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Yeah that could be a possiblity too. In that case, it will be more like soccer...
Football has to evolve or die. Football as it currently stands is not sustainable with dwindling participation and parents afraid of injuries. Im a former player and big a fan as they come, but I can see the writing on the wall.
 

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The lingerie league was somewhat entertaining. As they scale back the level of contact allowed, it makes it easier to get closer to having female players. I can see women kickers coming soon, give them an extra roster spot for a girl to kick just pat attempts. I personally would trade that for having all the players wear that disgusting pink for a month. And btw, breast cancer charities are mostly scams. They enrich their executives and then just hand the rest of the money to big pharma...because they really need your charitable contribution.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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And btw, breast cancer charities are mostly scams. They enrich their executives and then just hand the rest of the money to big pharma...because they really need your charitable contribution.
I agree.

It's documented that the largest breast cancer foundation - Susan G Komen Breast Cancer Foundation only devotes 21% to actual research. The other 79% is for "administrative" purposes aka lining people's pockets. Meanwhile taking millions in donations from various companies and organizations like the NFL.

Statistically 1 in 9 men will get Prostate Cancer in their lifetime.

Statiscially 1 in 8 women will get Breast Cancer in their lifetime.

So in a male dominated sport with predominantly male demographic viewership, why are we representing and supporting breast cancer when prostate cancer is just as common?

I think Breast Cancer awareness would do better and be more appropriate in female sports with more female viewership and demography IMO.
 
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