"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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redheads are uptight? what do you think

ScrewIt

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any thoughts on this?

at the gym today when i was working out, this redhead was working out near me and i saw two dudes try to hit on her and had a little convo going, and did not appear to turn out well at all....
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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red heads are uptight????

nah, thats not right....
 

alphawolfx

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no i don't think it was the fact that she was redheaded, that has nothign to do with it

it's the fact that she was at the gym, and hoping not to get hit on while sh'es trying to workout
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Most people know not to bother someone when they are working out. Anyone that works out regularly try to get into a certain rhythm to have a good workout and someone constantly bothering you during sets is very annoying. I suggest waiting until they take a break or after they finish.
 

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That and women are hit on constantly at the gym and I can see how anoying that must be; unless you're an attention -*****.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ScrewIt

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actually its quite rare in my gym, that or i dont notice it at all
 

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Hair is the single most important factor in personality. This whole site could be replaced by telling us how to be a DJ by changing our hair.

All real DJs have a comb-over and pony tail.

Forget everything else.
 
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