reddit: How to attract a woman(not a shallow girl) and maintain a good relationship

[Tilex]

NOTE: This advice was written by a female


https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/j5kcs3

0- Take care of the way that you look, ask if you would date yourself, the way that you look it's not the most important thing in a relationship for sure, but it's a way to attract other people when they don't know you. Sexual attraction it's important

1- If you like her, approach her in the most direct way" would you like to go on a date with me?" Don't give space for her to have the doubt if she is going out with you as a friend

2- if you are in a date with her, just talk normally, like you would do with a friend

3- Aks questions, nothing worse that having to think about the next question because the other person it's not helping the conversation to flow naturally

4- Text her, nor just to talk about the next date, but because you want to know her more and to create intimacy

5- Don't play games. Don't you think that we notice when you always wait 30 min to reply us? And when you reply with a short and impersonal answer... boring and annoying, we wouldn't text you back if we didn't want to talk with you

6- You don't need to exaggerate but show that you are intrested on her, always. It doesen't matter you you went with her on just one date, if she is already your girl or your wife, this is so important and she needs to do the same with you, she needs to make you feel special.

7- If you have a problem with her? Talk about it always, be polite and open minded, but always talk about it

8- Some guys have problems to talk about feelings, but we need to know what you are feeling for us and wich type of relationship you want with us. You want just a hook up? Ok, a friend with beneifts? Ok, do you want to have a long term relationship? Ok, just be honest and talk about this feelings, please. If you are with a girl for a year and you didn't said " I love you" or maybe you don't even love her, but she loves you, both of you are waisting your time


Best Response:

Never ask a fish how to catch a fish ask the fisherman. If this advice worked no man would have problems with girls, don’t you think we’ve tried this already? We have and it didn’t work that’s why we are here.

 

[Spaz]

When a man is single, he sees happy couples everywhere.

But when he is married or in an LTR, he sees happy single men everywhere.

Is this not true?

If so then don't waste ur time thinking abt what women wants.

Think abt ur own potential as a man, where do you stand right now, what's the timeline u r at vs where u r supposed to be.

Women will naturally fall into ur life as you're a man with a purpose, she will want to experience ur adventures that only a man could ever do.

Is this not true?

 

[bat soup]

This is good advice if you want to get friendzoned - talk about your feelings, text her between dates, pee sitting down, etc.

Here's the real advice: ruthlessly filter out all of the gold diggers, timewasters and bimbos, which make up the vast majority of women, and only deal with women that are submissive and give you 100% cooperation.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

This is good advice if you want to get friendzoned - talk about your feelings, text her between dates, pee sitting down, etc.

Here's the real advice: ruthlessly filter out all of the gold diggers, timewasters and bimbos, which make up the vast majority of women, and only deal with women that are submissive and give you 100% cooperation.

I always text women between dates. I found that not texting between dates or after setting up a date didn't work for me. This is one "rule" I don't agree with. But most guys are very poor via text, I am exceptional via text. If you aren't a good texter then you probably should learn how to become one rather than hiding from it.

 

[EyeBRollin]

This is bullshvt.

Tried to be fair. #0, 1, and 3 are correct. Everything else is pathetic. Listen to her if you want blue balls.

 

[LuckyStrike88]

This is very good advice, just do the opposite of what the woman advices.