"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Reddish complexion

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I have come off Roaccutane a few months ago. Acne all gone, and red marks/dots fading away. But my complexion still has a reddish tinge-as if I was sunburnt, which shows no signs of fading. This is especially apparant under bright light.

Does this eventuallly go away and will my face return to the same pink colour as the rest of my skin? And how long does it usually take?

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Matt
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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yes it does go, I get it under my eyes
 

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how long did yours take to go?

It doesn't look too bad-it just looks like i spent too long in the sun. I can't see any logical reason for it as it is not really scarring and the acne is all gone.

I read it was something to do with white blood cells being formed to attack the acne and making the skin inflammed-but i have no acne so why is the redness still there?

My doctor is not especially helpful-he just says it will fade but may take a year or so. I have had acne for so long, that i thought after the hell of a course of roaccutane (felt depressed and tired the whole time i was on it) that i would have lovely, clear, pink skin like before i started getting acne.
 

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if your from the Uk, try "Sudocrem". Pick it up at a pharmasist.
 
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