Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Red pill/Blue pill

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Seems like there's a party going on over here.

Can't make head or tail of it.

Someone give me a summary ?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Seems like there's a party going on over here.

Can't make head or tail of it.

Someone give me a summary ?
Well danger keeps try to get into the conversation but he’s too embroiled in his politics to contribute much.

The gist is that I am asserting that masculinity and feeing men is the only real way to win a war like this.
There was a good exchange between goodstuff and myself.
But to really get it read the last two pages.
 

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Well danger keeps try to get into the conversation but he’s too embroiled in his politics to contribute much.

The gist is that I am asserting that masculinity and feeing men is the only real way to win a war like this.
There was a good exchange between goodstuff and myself.
But to really get it read the last two pages.
Red/Blue pill has politics too ?

Must be a hell of a conspiracy to be able to dig that one up.
 

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Okay I have read the last 1 or 2 pages.

Blue pill is actually the feminine imperative.

(The feminine imperative is not bad or evil, it's there for the survival of humanity - another topic for another thread)

Whilst some men are more predisposed to its programming it's more to do with their inherent character traits they're born into - the 4 quadrants of personality which when broken down is 2 passive types + 2 dominant type of males and of course not forgetting their childhood upbringing (lack of masculine influences).

Passive men will be more susceptible to it - men deemed as intellectual (low social EQ) and men who are of the expressive personality (high social EQ).

But even then it's not set in stone. Men has the ability to rise above it by learning new ideas and imbued it into their thought processes.

This in turn changes how a man thinks to influence how he does things.

It's the results you see in ur life right now that's a true reflection on how you think.

If you are happy with the results, then it's working, keep at it.

If you aren't happy with the results, then it's not working, then the way you think is the wrong model and it's time to change.

It's as simple as that.

Men just need to remember, women only has power over you when you give it away.
 
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