"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Red man group #22 w/ Elliot Hulse

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Great video. Highly insightful.

Points that stood out to me:

  1. Men need purpose
  2. Boy and men need "a rite of passage"
  3. Lift heavy
  4. Man needs a older mentor
  5. Man needs to trust in men
  6. Priorities take precedent over women
  7. Man needs a Father
Peterson spoke of the Father as in, the father who made you, and "the father as such." As in, the archetype of the Father, the symbolic element of the aspect of order.

It aggregates me when I see the disrespect over Twitter towards fathers and more girl power promos attacking fathers.

One aspects I agreed with Elliot was the mention of "the elders nurturing." These men would heal a boy after fire ants and "the rite of passage."

Here, I disagreed with Rollo disputing man's ability to nurture. This herein lies why the court's continue to steal a mans children away (assuming no cucking lol) and extraction of Male resources.

I disagreed with Rollo disputing Jungian psychology. His argument was male testosterone lol when both men and women have it as well as estrogen. Clearly, Jung pointed out the anima and the animus. Its pretty deep topic but, I get his frustrations with the over bearing pedaling of gender neutrality. Its futile in a sexual polarity LTR. He's off the mark.

Rollo was very disingenuous with Peterson's 12 rules. I don't know if its due to his book out performing. The point is that, the message resonates to "the lost boys." If you have no aim, you can go nowhere, and fast. I prefer the following over the incel GTA mini vans.

I don't know if Rollo was in a bad mood but, he seemed off.

The vid was pretty good regardless of your perspective. Its apparent the need for solitude from women and women during a rite of passage.

All the men agreed with trauma leading to transcending.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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