"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Red Flags!!!

NSUballer

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Okay, everthing I know is telling me to walk away right now and move on to another girl. I have been talkin to this girl for like 2-3 weeks or so. Last sunday I had a party and she came to hang wit me or whatever. She did her homework the night before just so she could come. The next day (monday) we had lunch. That was the last time I saw her. Sometimes I call her and she answers sometimes she dont. I know she is really busy with school, she is the strait A type, so she spends alot of time doing that(even on weekends). I know she is into me otherwise she would just stop seeing me completely.

The problem is that I am not sure it is worth pursuing this girl because it is so difficult to spend time with her. The only thing i can really look forward to is the semester break when I know shes got no schoolwork.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If you're not gettin' what you want from her -- don't even bother.

You've said it yourself, all the things you've mentioned tells you that you should not.

Trust your gut.
 

Alphathree

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Date her. CHEAT on her when she's too busy. Seriously.

Oh, and STOP CALLING HER for Christ's sake.
 
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