"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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NSUballer

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Okay, everthing I know is telling me to walk away right now and move on to another girl. I have been talkin to this girl for like 2-3 weeks or so. Last sunday I had a party and she came to hang wit me or whatever. She did her homework the night before just so she could come. The next day (monday) we had lunch. That was the last time I saw her. Sometimes I call her and she answers sometimes she dont. I know she is really busy with school, she is the strait A type, so she spends alot of time doing that(even on weekends). I know she is into me otherwise she would just stop seeing me completely.

The problem is that I am not sure it is worth pursuing this girl because it is so difficult to spend time with her. The only thing i can really look forward to is the semester break when I know shes got no schoolwork.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If you're not gettin' what you want from her -- don't even bother.

You've said it yourself, all the things you've mentioned tells you that you should not.

Trust your gut.
 
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Date her. CHEAT on her when she's too busy. Seriously.

Oh, and STOP CALLING HER for Christ's sake.
 
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