"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Long Duck Dong

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Alright, so lately i've been seeing this girl for a lil over a month now. She is new in town and i met her out on the streets one day. Now for about the first 3 weeks we were just friends because she has a boyfriend. But, he lives in another state. Then a few nights ago she has been sending me text messages telling me she likes me or wants to get more intimate with me and so on. Lets not forget the fact she has a boyfriend. So one day I met her at her house and we starting fooling around (You guys can figure that out yourself.) Anyways, we have been messing around now for a few days but her mom, sister, and brother don't know that. They think we're just friends and nothing else. Also when her boyfriend calls she lies to him saying im not with her but tells him that she loves him. It seems to me so far that we are just f$ck buddies. Finally, during the beginning of this summer her boyfriend is gonna send her money so she can fly back to live with him. But she tells her family it will probably only last about 2 months then she will move back here.

My guess is that in the end she will most likely stay with her boyfriend. So i'm wondering if i should have fun while im with her now? Or move on to a different girl? I'd like to know what you guys think about this situation.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Do both. See other girls. it will help you stay unattached to this one
 

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Long Duck Dong said:
Alright, so lately i've been seeing this girl for a lil over a month now. She is new in town and i met her out on the streets one day. Now for about the first 3 weeks we were just friends because she has a boyfriend. But, he lives in another state. Then a few nights ago she has been sending me text messages telling me she likes me or wants to get more intimate with me and so on. Lets not forget the fact she has a boyfriend. So one day I met her at her house and we starting fooling around (You guys can figure that out yourself.) Anyways, we have been messing around now for a few days but her mom, sister, and brother don't know that. They think we're just friends and nothing else. Also when her boyfriend calls she lies to him saying im not with her but tells him that she loves him. It seems to me so far that we are just f$ck buddies. Finally, during the beginning of this summer her boyfriend is gonna send her money so she can fly back to live with him. But she tells her family it will probably only last about 2 months then she will move back here.

My guess is that in the end she will most likely stay with her boyfriend. So i'm wondering if i should have fun while im with her now? Or move on to a different girl? I'd like to know what you guys think about this situation.

If you get attached in this situation you'll be the chump boyfriend 6 months from now. She's CLEARLY showing you that she is incapable of being faithful and is a liar. If you choose to ignore this HUGE red flags and get emotionally involved with her, you'll be the one getting played big time.

You can't see her or even talk to her everyday, that's how you get attached. These are the types of w-hores you chit-chat with just so you can go fuvk 'em when you feel like busting a nut. If you recognize a girl for who she is, then you'll never get played. But if you try to make a ho' into a house wife your dust.

Bottom line: Lay off this chick for a bit and go out with your buddies. Fuvk her and leave, don't get all mushy with her and what not. And lastly, don't tell us we didn't tell you if you get attached. I can see you coming back in 2 months posting about how your in a relationship with this slvtbag and should've known better.



PIMP
 

Bible_Belt

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I love the user name. That movie character was a foreign exchange student whose only English was, 'What's happenin, hot stuff!"

Fuvk her and leave

Yep. I'd also suggest making a list of things you'd like to do to/with a girl but have not as of yet, and start getting those things done. She is temporary fun, nothing more.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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