"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Red Flags that the girl isn't a keeper

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Proselytiser said:
So according to ATP, 97.5% of people are trash :confused:
That would be about the right amount yeah. 2.5 % are LTR worthy :)

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Do YOU even have an IQ of 130? How do you even know the IQ of people you talk to? Are you aware that 110-130 is still reasonably intelligent and 100-110 is average?
Yes but I don't like to not brag about it. :yes: You can see it in their eyes, in their behavior and when they talk.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I don't know what to make of this but, I had a gal 8 years my younger today (I've known her for 3-4 years) disrespect her co-worker whom I'd just met. She saw me and then began belittling him about his shirt and how "cute" he was. That turned me off and was kind of tacky in a business situation. I was respectful to him all along, the young feller, but I had to leave after she dissed him in front of me, because she notice 'I' was there. It was almost as if she was saying, "Look, you're no match for real man like him" to the kid. I did not like that belittlement of him in the least. Sure she has a fine bubble butt, and beautiful cute eyes and nose, but sheesh, I started thinking how she'd treat me by the way she treated her co-worker.

I think I caught her off-guard and she wasn't expecting me to show up, so she just started acting crazy on the dude, as if to say, "He's just my co-worker. I'm not a loser like him. Don't hold it against me that I work here, Poon."

I'll probably see her this weekend around her friends away from her work, but I seriously am not interested in such a shallow girl, no matter how cute she is. I've turned down many like that. Women don't know what I want. They try to act a certain way that they think they'd fit into what I'd want, but they always end up shooting themselves in the foot.
 

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ATP said:
That would be about the right amount yeah. 2.5 % are LTR worthy :)



Yes but I don't like to not brag about it. :yes: You can see it in their eyes, in their behavior and when they talk.
So you think you can use these indicators to tell the difference between an IQ of 130 and of... say 120?

And it isn't 2.5%. We have to subtract from that 2.5% the girls who are below your standards for looks and other personality traits (making up the vast majority I hope) and then you find there's only about 10 girls in your state you'd ever have an LTR with (assuming you live in like California or something). If anything girls of that intelligence are more likely to be feminists - but in any case, overeducation does no girl any good - assuming that they pursue their education as far as possible, which they probably will.

If we take that figure - 2.5% of girls are LTR worthy (and I've never thought about this, but let's run with it) I think that down here in Melbourne I would have to go down at least 20 points further than you to fill up that 2.5% with girls that are both nice to look at and pleasant to be in the company of.

It is your choice of course, but I think it's a bit extreme and I really, really doubt that you stick to that 'standard' with any degree of rigidity
 

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ATP said:
No hobbies




IQ below 130

Just like you don't want a fat girlfriend you don't want a girl who places a square inside a circular whole thinking it will fit.
130 is a bit much. 110 is alright (avg being 100 not 115)

BTW ATP how do you meet 130+ iq women?
 

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BananaSmile said:
130 is a bit much. 110 is alright (avg being 100 not 115)

BTW ATP how do you meet 130+ iq women?
I guess he trolls for chicks at MENSA meetings!

Other Red Flags:

*Has more than 2 cats (Crazy cat lady in training!)

* Smokes. (Is there ever a good reason to smoke?)

*Likes to have her dog sleep on her bed. (Reason: Dogs view you as an intruder in their sleep zone. Nice way to get bit!)

*Says things like:
"Oh I only by Brand X! Everything else is crap!" (Label Queen)
"I just have a fit when some one does xyz! I just hate that!" (Control Freak)
"Let's go out! I want to show off my new clothes!" (Attention Wh0re)

Mentions mother or sister had abusive husband/boyfriends or numerous marriages. (It will run in families)

Has a different religion than you. (It's not worth the fighting about who's god loves them best.)
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Proselytiser said:
So you think you can use these indicators to tell the difference between an IQ of 130 and of... say 120?

And it isn't 2.5%. We have to subtract from that 2.5% the girls who are below your standards for looks and other personality traits (making up the vast majority I hope) and then you find there's only about 10 girls in your state you'd ever have an LTR with (assuming you live in like California or something).
Well I was never much of a polygamic guy anyway, I'd guess there would be a good way to separate these ten women from each other and find the best one. :up: I thought only the retarded women would find feminism appealing, afterall it got the same properties as racism and you don't find many high intellectual women in those groups. Kitchen adhesiveness would be a good trait as well, a nice woman to cook me dinner.

No but you are right, as long as she got some brains and you know, loads of other good qualities it's allright.

I kinda wish there were a secret to meet smart women because even at universities there are a load of mediocre women who just parrot the courses without understanding jack.
 

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A girl who doesn't drink/party at all is more of a disqualifier for me, than one who does it a lot.
 
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