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TheGambino

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Hi guys,

I just came back from a great vacation in Morocco (my mothers country).
I went out everyday and f*cked several girls and hookers (hookers go clubbing there also).

So many adventures and sh*t that happened but I'll make a post about that if you guys want to read it and when I have time for it.
This is a particular case I really need proper advice before I make any mistakes. Only people that want to help me and are here for a long time reply please.

Met this chick 2 weeks ago when I was there for a couple of days. I rented a 80K Audi and Marrakech is a materialistic city because there are people with loads of money and with nothing. Anyway I was driving around with my buddy after a party and I saw a beautiful girl in a car with her friend behind us.

I drove next to them and made contact and they laughed, I told them to follow me. They did. We parked and I flirted with the girls in the car. After 10 mins flirting I told the beauty, I call her Ay to hop in for a afterparty. She told me I could go with you but you need to help me with some cash, I spend a lot and I need to pay my rent. I said ok no problem hop in.

She hopped in, took her home, had drinks and f*cked her like theres no tommorow, also made her cvm. She was all over me but told me she had to go to work in a hotel (recepcionist), probably a lie.

I gave her some leftovers in my wallet and she left after 1.5 hours of f*cking and cuddling.

After that day, every single story I posted on snapchat she watched it first and kind of following my snapchat stories like a fan. She opened my story minutes after I posted something new for 2 weeks. She went to another city with her friend and the mom of her friend. She asked me to join her, she had an appartment where we could stay for a couple of days and she would go back with me to Marrakech. I told her no I can't, I'm busy sory babe.

Anyway I moved on and f*cked other girls ofc.

Two days ago (i came back yesterday), we finally had a date again. Before the date she texted me, I still need money for my rent and stuff, I don't make hours at work anymore, I can stay with you but you gotta help me with money... Ok listen though, in Marrakech 80% of all women that go out at night are prostitutes though. This one wasn't a professional one though, but doing some of that.

Picked her up, went to a pool with restaurant, had a bite and the date went smoothly, Im a DJ, cmon I swipe every girl of her feet on a date. This was not normal ofc, Marrakech, and all that is weird for me too.

She is a 9 in my eyes, beautiful body, the chin, the eyes, the look it kind of does it for me. She looks like my ex I was crazy about before I joined this forum.

Then I had to figure out about her and here where the red flags for a DJ will show:

She tells me that she hasnt seen her real father for 15 years (shes 21). He doesn't want her she tells me, he has new kids. She has beef with her mom because her new husband doesnt like Ay. Ay lived in France for 2 years and had problems there, the whole family came back to Morocco and after a couple of years Ay decided to leave and live on her own. Well that goes great as you can see...

The style of Ay is still perfect for TheGambino, after hundreds of girls this one stands out, I just like these type of women, the way she looks, the way she talks, the way she behaves, she does it and ofcourse she likes me too, she needs money but she likes Thegambino, Im sure im her style too.

Anyway ill tell you guys the proof.

We went to my appartment. Talking, cuddling, kissing, foreplay. Ay and I got on a emotional cex level, that's a level you will achieve if you both feel eachother, she opened up too me and I used that leverage by being there for her, giving her a shoulder and genuine from the heart kisses, women will feel that.

Kissing, sucking, teasing playing. After an hour of that, we went to the room and I fingered and f8cked her. She squirted and I asked her howmany times you came? She told me 20 times, you really broke me, im shocked, no one did something to me like this and she was all over me. My whole bed wet.

I feel like she likes me. Only f*cking won't make a girl come 20 times, even if your a good fvcker like myself. It's the emotional connection, if you get that she will feel more relaxed and enjoy the moment and will enjoy the cex more.

After cex some cuddling and rubbing and I told her I had to go to my family.

I told her, wanna come to holland for vacation 2 weeks? She said yessss please, really. Thegamb: so what your going to do here? Ay: wait for you to come from work ofcourse, cook and clean and have fun with you. Sounds good to me....

So im debating if I should fix her a visum and try this out...

Red flags everywhere? Ye
Is she worth it? I guess

Problem is, I had a situation similar like this 6 years ago but that girl didnt ask for money. I left her and didnt talk to her anymore, she became a real hoe and I saw her this vacation too, random in a club all f8cked up with saudi guys partying and f8cking afterwards. I dont want this to happen to Ay, shes still young and trying and looking.

Yet again, the golden rule waves true my head: dont be ''captain save a hoe''
Yet again, im Thegambino, I know women from A to Z, she cant play me.

Your replies will decide my future lol as I respect this forum so much.
 

soulforge

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You are a beta provider. She will jump onto whoever has money. She’s a hoe. Think of her as a prostitute with benefits, you get to emotionally attach to her.

Your in luv with a *****.. Good luck
 

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That's an awfully long rationalization for something extremely sketchy. I guess she has already succeeded in fooling you. What is it that you're going to try? LTR? Some things are just 100% unsustainable for LTR, the woman craving money and leaning on you for financial support is one of those things. You make excuses now, but if you walk down this path you'll eventually resent her and yourself for it.

Rationality should take priority over emotions, always! Right now you're listening to your emotions, that's the only way to irrationally convince yourself to ignore red flags. Don't be that fvcking stupid.
 

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Hi guys,

I just came back from a great vacation in Morocco (my mothers country).
I went out everyday and f*cked several girls and hookers (hookers go clubbing there also).

So many adventures and sh*t that happened but I'll make a post about that if you guys want to read it and when I have time for it.
This is a particular case I really need proper advice before I make any mistakes. Only people that want to help me and are here for a long time reply please.

Met this chick 2 weeks ago when I was there for a couple of days. I rented a 80K Audi and Marrakech is a materialistic city because there are people with loads of money and with nothing. Anyway I was driving around with my buddy after a party and I saw a beautiful girl in a car with her friend behind us.

I drove next to them and made contact and they laughed, I told them to follow me. They did. We parked and I flirted with the girls in the car. After 10 mins flirting I told the beauty, I call her Ay to hop in for a afterparty. She told me I could go with you but you need to help me with some cash, I spend a lot and I need to pay my rent. I said ok no problem hop in.

She hopped in, took her home, had drinks and f*cked her like theres no tommorow, also made her cvm. She was all over me but told me she had to go to work in a hotel (recepcionist), probably a lie.

I gave her some leftovers in my wallet and she left after 1.5 hours of f*cking and cuddling.

After that day, every single story I posted on snapchat she watched it first and kind of following my snapchat stories like a fan. She opened my story minutes after I posted something new for 2 weeks. She went to another city with her friend and the mom of her friend. She asked me to join her, she had an appartment where we could stay for a couple of days and she would go back with me to Marrakech. I told her no I can't, I'm busy sory babe.

Anyway I moved on and f*cked other girls ofc.

Two days ago (i came back yesterday), we finally had a date again. Before the date she texted me, I still need money for my rent and stuff, I don't make hours at work anymore, I can stay with you but you gotta help me with money... Ok listen though, in Marrakech 80% of all women that go out at night are prostitutes though. This one wasn't a professional one though, but doing some of that.

Picked her up, went to a pool with restaurant, had a bite and the date went smoothly, Im a DJ, cmon I swipe every girl of her feet on a date. This was not normal ofc, Marrakech, and all that is weird for me too.

She is a 9 in my eyes, beautiful body, the chin, the eyes, the look it kind of does it for me. She looks like my ex I was crazy about before I joined this forum.

Then I had to figure out about her and here where the red flags for a DJ will show:

She tells me that she hasnt seen her real father for 15 years (shes 21). He doesn't want her she tells me, he has new kids. She has beef with her mom because her new husband doesnt like Ay. Ay lived in France for 2 years and had problems there, the whole family came back to Morocco and after a couple of years Ay decided to leave and live on her own. Well that goes great as you can see...

The style of Ay is still perfect for TheGambino, after hundreds of girls this one stands out, I just like these type of women, the way she looks, the way she talks, the way she behaves, she does it and ofcourse she likes me too, she needs money but she likes Thegambino, Im sure im her style too.

Anyway ill tell you guys the proof.

We went to my appartment. Talking, cuddling, kissing, foreplay. Ay and I got on a emotional cex level, that's a level you will achieve if you both feel eachother, she opened up too me and I used that leverage by being there for her, giving her a shoulder and genuine from the heart kisses, women will feel that.

Kissing, sucking, teasing playing. After an hour of that, we went to the room and I fingered and f8cked her. She squirted and I asked her howmany times you came? She told me 20 times, you really broke me, im shocked, no one did something to me like this and she was all over me. My whole bed wet.

I feel like she likes me. Only f*cking won't make a girl come 20 times, even if your a good fvcker like myself. It's the emotional connection, if you get that she will feel more relaxed and enjoy the moment and will enjoy the cex more.

After cex some cuddling and rubbing and I told her I had to go to my family.

I told her, wanna come to holland for vacation 2 weeks? She said yessss please, really. Thegamb: so what your going to do here? Ay: wait for you to come from work ofcourse, cook and clean and have fun with you. Sounds good to me....

So im debating if I should fix her a visum and try this out...

Red flags everywhere? Ye
Is she worth it? I guess

Problem is, I had a situation similar like this 6 years ago but that girl didnt ask for money. I left her and didnt talk to her anymore, she became a real hoe and I saw her this vacation too, random in a club all f8cked up with saudi guys partying and f8cking afterwards. I dont want this to happen to Ay, shes still young and trying and looking.

Yet again, the golden rule waves true my head: dont be ''captain save a hoe''
Yet again, im Thegambino, I know women from A to Z, she cant play me.

Your replies will decide my future lol as I respect this forum so much.
What a mess!!!!!
 

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Rather explain, I already dropped the idea but explain
The whole story is a complete mess. You're falling in love with a prostitute. You need to forget about this girl and move on, unless you want to be a cuckold
 

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Thing is, if you would go to youtube and type AMS, you wouldn't ask suck a dumb question.

Don't get it twisted, this sht can be strong. I had this type of sht, and it was strong. This much strong.

But it don't mean sht. It will leave you devastated, the sooner you say fck off the btter.
 

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Thing is, if you would go to youtube and type AMS, you wouldn't ask suck a dumb question.

Don't get it twisted, this sht can be strong. I had this type of sht, and it was strong. This much strong.

But it don't mean sht. It will leave you devastated, the sooner you say fck off the btter.
I dont understand bro
 

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She told me I could go with you but you need to help me with some cash, I spend a lot and I need to pay my rent. I said ok no problem hop in.
This is where the story would have stop for me.

Not sure is it a culture thing in Moroco, but every thing will be about buying stuff for her from now on.

I want a women that wants to be with me not my wallet.
Cant stand women like that idc how hot they are.
 

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Essentially, she fcked your car. She rubbed her click on your tire. You rolled that that sht, instead of throwing her ass into trunk with a bag of rats, and taking her for a ride., she took you for a ride.

It don't matter of it's morocco or sahara, it's called gold diggin everywhere on our planet earth.
 

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Essentially, she fcked your car. She rubbed her click on your tire. You rolled that that sht, instead of throwing her ass into trunk with a bag of rats, and taking her for a ride., she took you for a ride.

It don't matter of it's morocco or sahara, it's called gold diggin everywhere on our planet earth.
Ye ye ye, im gonna spin new plates
 

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a come on comming to this forum asking if dating a hooker is a good move? if you wanna play the sugar daddy go ahead, but please, don't be this stupid, thinking its a good move.


he even had the gall to say only to answer if you are a long time poster and willing to help. tossing the op in hell would be helping in this case
 

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I dont know what was funnier........classifying paying a low life prostitute for sex as a "date" or believing this chick when she says "Nobody EVER made me cvm like that!".

Listen @TheGambino I like your posts. They are entertaining. But you really struggle with things after being on here for years and sometimes I just think there is no hope for you in the grand scheme of being a true ladies man who has lots of options, doesnt get attached too quickly and knows when to walk away.

You seem to step in shyte all the time and then ask us to smell your shoes to see if its really shyte on them.

At some point you have to figure out how to avoid the shyte in the first place.
 

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I dont know what was funnier........classifying paying a low life prostitute for sex as a "date" or believing this chick when she says "Nobody EVER made me cvm like that!".

Listen @TheGambino I like your posts. They are entertaining. But you really struggle with things after being on here for years and sometimes I just think there is no hope for you in the grand scheme of being a true ladies man who has lots of options, doesnt get attached too quickly and knows when to walk away.

You seem to step in shyte all the time and then ask us to smell your shoes to see if its really shyte on them.

At some point you have to figure out how to avoid the shyte in the first place.
Bro seriousley. Dont underestimate me. Im a real boss, every guy in a room knows im the lion when I enter. Girls feel that and im really sure they think im a special guy. I also know how to f*ck and Kiss. I specialised myself really. I think she wants cash but i also think she really likes me. Anyway you are always right but you underestimate me because i Made her squirt and regular girls in Holland also tell me they never came so hard when i do my thingS
 
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