"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I've been doing the whole online dating thing for the last couple of months, and I had been messaging this one girl back and forth a bit, well, I asked if she wanted to get drinks, it went like this...

Me : Anyways, would you be down to get a drink or something one of these days?

Her: Sure I come back on the 8th

Me: sounds good! I'll message you next week.

Her: K or whenever

Anyways, Like I stated on there, I messaged her the following week.

Me: how does Wednesday sound?

Her: Can't have court


Now perhaps it could just be for a driving ticket, but if she couldn't go out in the evening because of it, and I've never been to traffic court later than 1PM.

I don't know if it's for something more serious than just a driving ticket, and that I should really be concerned about.

Should I not worry and try for another date, should I ask her what her court date is for, or should I just say forget it and next her?

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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A woman with a court appearance? That would be enough to put me off. :D
 
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I had a very similar thing with a woman from match.

I asked her 3 times and each time she was juggling kids and work but no counter offer. She texted 3 days later to ask (only) how things are going...

I had already nexted her.

No counter offer = next!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ah, a night to sleep on it and the replies to this post confirmed exactly how I felt about the situation.

Next *****es!
 
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