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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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RED CROSS-Katrina

exwhyzee

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Hurrican Katrina sucks, and I want to help out.

My friend called Red Cross the other day and said if you take two three hour courses they will fly you down to New Orleans or someplace to help out. I think it would be a great experience and for a very noble cause.

My question to everyone is have you ever done any volunteer experience like with Red Cross away from you home, if you have tell me what it was like and if you think it would be worht it going down there for about 4 days-I would stay longer but I have to go to class.

Any thoughts and comments will be greatly appreciated.
 

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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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sifer

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Originally posted by exwhyzee
Hurrican Katrina sucks, and I want to help out.

My friend called Red Cross the other day and said if you take two three hour courses they will fly you down to New Orleans or someplace to help out. I think it would be a great experience and for a very noble cause.

My question to everyone is have you ever done any volunteer experience like with Red Cross away from you home, if you have tell me what it was like and if you think it would be worht it going down there for about 4 days-I would stay longer but I have to go to class.

Any thoughts and comments will be greatly appreciated.
Please, post the link or the phone number!!

I'll go.

I have been finding ways to help them (ah, it's just me as usual). I'll stay for as long as I can.

Please post the link or phone number I cannot wait to help.. hurry hurry..
 

sifer

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Originally posted by diablo
http://www2.redcross.org/donate/volunteer/

I don't think what you heard is factual, however. We've been hearing that there are too many people already; they're already getting in each others way. However, maybe you know something I don't...
I hope you aren't right on this, where did you hear that?
 
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