You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
TheStig said:Update:
Found 1 last tub of original jack3d at a gnc pretty far away..I'm gonna cherish this tub forever, only using it when I reaaaaallly need a boost in a workout.
10000% positive. The tub is bigger than micro, doesn't say micro, and 1, 3 dimeth is in the ingredients list. It's exactly the same as the ones I've had before. And it also has caffeine to go with the DMAA hahaMalice said:Are you sure it doesn't say "Jack3d MICRO" on the front? If it does, it means it does not have the DMAA in it. Looks like they replaced it with Caffeine or something.
TheStig said:10000% positive. The tub is bigger than micro, doesn't say micro, and 1, 3 dimeth is in the ingredients list. It's exactly the same as the ones I've had before. And it also has caffeine to go with the DMAA haha
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You went to the shrink?MaddXMan said:Scored some addies over the weekend. Also a couple sample packs of Nuvigil, the "shift work" medication. Does not get you hyped up and buzzed whatsoever but is great for days with long boring meetings.
Hit up a friend who has a Rx and needed the money.Malice said:You went to the shrink?
MaddXMan said:Hit up a friend who has a Rx and needed the money.
She threw in a couple sample packs of Nuvigil gratis.
I like your doctor shopping tips, but I have only one more week before I have to attend a month of classroom training, which is in another state. I just don't have the time.
I absolutely do not do well with long boring meetings and classroom training and need the help...that won't make me crash after a few hours.