Your points are all valid, but actually have little to do with what happened to me. Maybe I need to explain my posts better.
ER!C L!VE said:
Homie, you were way past kino escalation. You use kino escalation to get the girl hot and bothered and comfortable around you.
Actually, there was little kino prior to getting into bed with her. Women are comfortable around me whether I touch them or not. So we ended up in bed, just hanging out and talking, then i began kino.
Everything prior to penetration is kino as far as i'm concerned.
ER!C L!VE said:
Mystery calls your situation Last Minute Resistance (LMR). You countered it with a FREEZE OUT (To ignore a women in order to have her seek validation from you.)
My situation was not last minute, it was actually very early on. I'm fully aware of what LMR is.
What I did was not a freeze out, I was being responsive to what she said, and not to make her seek validation.
To ignore a women in order to have her seek validation from you is something you do when you open the set, if you want to refer to MM. This is not the same as playing hard to get in bed.
ER!C L!VE said:
If you're in bed with a girl, then you're WAY past kino escalation.
Again, this is a premature generalization. Every situation is not text book MM.