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Recurrent oneitis with specific types of girls.

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I believe that certain types of women that I'm going to see, meet or encounter are just prone to oneitis by me where I'll invariably either go nowhere, get friendzoned, while some other guy gets the goods while I develop a limerance on them, and then feel inadequate.

The type of girl in question has jet black hair, sometimes blonde, and has an olive or cinnamin skin complexion and has an exotic type of look. They appear to be very pretty, and sometimes sexy too, but they have a crisp intelligent look in their face.

They stand out in a crowd and I notice them. I can remember in the past from elementary school to current time that such women have just stood out and I'm either afraid to approach them, or if I do have some sort of rapport it's usually a crush where I'm having some sort of oneitis on them and it's a recurrent theme.

Any other type of girls are not likely to put the same issues

My guess is something is messed up with my 'inner game' and I think despite efforts to improve approach or practise on other girls - it still wont apply to this particular type of girl unless inner game issues are resolved and they are not automatically pedistalised.

Does anyone else have this issue - your game works with everyone, except for a particular type of girl that you are prone to have a oneitis on? How did you attempt to resolve the problem and crack that particular type of girl?
 

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seams to be similar to my issue.

I can game a ton of women I end up having no real interest in, but as soon as I find one I would like to go somewhere with I get a wrench thrown into the works and my whole stratagy goes to crap.

Its beginning to piss me off. I think this summer with a break from school and time to enjoy some of my leisures will help clear the head and whatnot.

Its like, I don't like you, yet you want me and it shows....badly, Or I like them, and they either dont like me, play hard to get, are busy, have a bf..

Argh!
 
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David Deangelo has this product out that deals with "Inner Game" issues.

See the thing with most games and techniques is they work on girls that you obviously have no interest in - but I think these types of girls you are really interested in require a strong inner game or something. Have you thought of buying into that Deangelo product?
 
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