"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Rectifiying the situation

Diaoz

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Hey guys, need some serious help here. 2years back, when I was 12, I was a real havoc in school. I?m outside the classroom everyday, so most of the folks in the other classes think I?m a real ****, both in intellect and character. It?s not so though, while I get chase out, I?ve got pretty good results, and I?m not exactly nice to teachers, but I can be really nice and thoughtful to girls. Anyway, I got the e-mail of this girl in the best class. I added her to my MSN Contacts, however?I didn?t know what to say when she asked me who I am, and why did I add her, so I insisted she added me first, and I have no idea who I am. After some crappy ?clarification?, she didn?t mind and said it?s good to know more people, since it?s just chatting anyway. I introduced myself as non-existent identity. After a while, I stopped logging in to MSN, however she still forwards those chain-mails and the likes to me, until it stopped abruptly a year ago. I didn?t exactly do anything but I think she found out who I am. However, a month back, she came to my mind. And I decided to admit what I did, and apologize. Hopefully regain this interesting chatting partner and maybe something further. She?s really pretty and cute, but exceptionally smart too, so it?s kindda hard for me to know what she?s thinking, and obviously she feels more superior over me. I sent her this mail:

Hi, I would like to apologize for tricking you. What I did two years back came to mind a couple of days ago and I reckoned I should apologize. Hopefully, you will forgive me of my silly behavior. You should probably cut me some slack though, I was in 12 then, immature, ignorant, dumb, silly, disgusting and on and on it goes....
On a side-note, early birthday greetings, your's probably between October 23rd and November 21st, as I recall you telling me you're a Scorpio.

I strongly believe she read it, but what I know for sure is that she?s block and deleted me from her MSN Contacts. So, how do I get her to forgive me and give me a chance to know the real me? I?ve got her address and home phone but I don?t think it?s appropriate to mail/call her. HELP! I?ve also read through all the mails she?s sent me, and fortunately two of them were mails asking you to tell your friends more about yourselves, so I got abit of information about her, like she?s a scorpio, her kind of guys(of which I fit in nicely, only have to think of how to let her know me as me). Thanks
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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blienk

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Uh, to be honest that whole situation is pretty ****in weird and I'm guessing she just got creeped out or something. Your best bet would be to forget the MSN **** and talk to her in school.
 

Diaoz

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unfortunately, we're no longer in the same school. And even if we are, what am I supposed to say?
 

DJoneday

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You sound like a stalker, so i'm going to give you some life changing advice right now. Forget her. F-O-R-G-E-T H-E-R. There's no chance. But luckily, that won't matter now that you're here. Read the bible, read the posts, learn the material, then go practice it. Welcome to the site man, you need it.
 

Diaoz

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Well, yeah...it's pretty ****ty...but what if I really want her?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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InsidiousNstinct

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Man your lucky your new roomate isnt some guy named bubba who likes back massages....

just forget that girl and move on. Im sure you can find another smart attractive girl...all though alot seem ditzy:rolleyes:
 
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