"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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recreating attraction?

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hey people, nice forum you guys got here..

*edited*..figured my post was too long.....ok i got two questions:

1)can you tickle a girl too much??me and this girl were play fighting i class when i suddenly asked her if she was ticklish and started to tickle her....she didnt seem to mind,and i liked doin it(she had nice hips)so the next day when i saw her, i sneaked up behind her and suddenly put my fingers to her hips,and i did this in the evening too.....

2)how do you recreate attraction??a girl used to like me even when she had a bf but i wasn't....it died down now..how do i get her to notice me again....we were pretty good friends and used to talk every alt. day(she called,some times 2-3 times) and now nothing....it's about 1 month since i last spoke to her....

(btw the same girl involved in both the q's)
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well, obviously this girl has lost interest in you because you are tickling her TOO MUCH, which feeds her ALOT of attention.
You're basically communicationg that you WANT HER. And she can read your mind. Since you weren't giving her as much attention when she had a bf, she was more attracted to you.

Give a little. Take away. Rinse, Repeat.
 
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Originally posted by Electric_blue
hey people, nice forum you guys got here..

*edited*..figured my post was too long.....ok i got two questions:

1)can you tickle a girl too much??
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when gio tickles me too much , he has to stop so i can go pee.
 
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Ok grim point taken.....no more touchin etc...i'm taking a step back, hope i can make her drool again....really hope i can find a new girl to work on though...i'm kinda getting bored with her...
 
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