"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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recreating attraction?

Electric_blue

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hey people, nice forum you guys got here..

*edited*..figured my post was too long.....ok i got two questions:

1)can you tickle a girl too much??me and this girl were play fighting i class when i suddenly asked her if she was ticklish and started to tickle her....she didnt seem to mind,and i liked doin it(she had nice hips)so the next day when i saw her, i sneaked up behind her and suddenly put my fingers to her hips,and i did this in the evening too.....

2)how do you recreate attraction??a girl used to like me even when she had a bf but i wasn't....it died down now..how do i get her to notice me again....we were pretty good friends and used to talk every alt. day(she called,some times 2-3 times) and now nothing....it's about 1 month since i last spoke to her....

(btw the same girl involved in both the q's)
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Michael Chief

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Well, obviously this girl has lost interest in you because you are tickling her TOO MUCH, which feeds her ALOT of attention.
You're basically communicationg that you WANT HER. And she can read your mind. Since you weren't giving her as much attention when she had a bf, she was more attracted to you.

Give a little. Take away. Rinse, Repeat.
 

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Originally posted by Electric_blue
hey people, nice forum you guys got here..

*edited*..figured my post was too long.....ok i got two questions:

1)can you tickle a girl too much??

when gio tickles me too much , he has to stop so i can go pee.
 

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Ok grim point taken.....no more touchin etc...i'm taking a step back, hope i can make her drool again....really hope i can find a new girl to work on though...i'm kinda getting bored with her...
 
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