"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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RECREATING ATTRACTION on gf you took virginity from~~~

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This girl that was HB8.5 - HB9 was extremely attracted to me. I stole her from her 23 year old BF. She is 17 (me 18) and after 2 months of being with her...she lost her virginity to me. Her ex of 2 years did not get any.

After being with her for 4 months, she went to Lativa (former USSR state) to visit family and friends (she came to America a few years ago as immigrant)

I really had a bad feeling of her going to Lativa for 2 months. And I thought that she might loose the attraction she had going on me after 2 months of not seeing me. Since we did not hang out like we did everyday when she was on vacation, are chemistry faded. Especially hers. The day she came back, she did not call me and when I saw her she did not go in for a kiss. I read the signs and could tell she was not attracted to me anymore. So I broke up with her the next day and she said she felt the same. It was really hard for me to break up with her sexy ass but I did it as a plan to hang out with her as friends and then slowly increase attraction again instead of breaking up and never seeing her again.

SO I NEED ADVICE ON HOW would you start and amplify the attraction again if your girlfriend went to Lativa for 1/3 of the relationship (2 months) and lost attraction. Remember she gave me her high demand virginity to me.

I have a feeling that she still has feelings for me that are hidden. I think if we kiss once, the spark might fly again. After I broke up with her; I said, "I want to give you one last kiss with tongue." but she declined


Other important info:
~We chilled almost everyday for 3 months striaght
~Almost all guys want a peice of her
~We rolled a few times together (if you don't know what that means ignore)
~She lost virginity to me
~I am 80% sure that I am the only guy she has fuked. (don't disagree with lame posts)

I will update more later.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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On a seperate issue, that guy who she dumped for you must be well pissed off. 2 years in a sexless relationship..OUCH. You really wouldnt think it's worth it. As to your question I have absolutely no relevant advice sorry. lol
 
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It's Latvia, not Lativa. Latvian chicks are hot.

Get over that Lativian minx and find a new hottie with more experience. Maybe one from Checksvlakia.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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do the usual flirt with other girls when around her.... MAke ****y funny remarks, try to mention some sexually things she liked casually into the convo but only to her, dont go and do that **** when ur in a group.... Just make her a litle jeleous and **** like that... Play it hot and cold sometimes.... act like u really want her sometimes and then act like that u have no interest, but dont do this too often...
thats all i can think of right on the spot cuz of lack of information about the relationship amongts u her, u her and her friends, u and her friends,
 
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Some girls when they loose their virginity to that ''special'' guy get more attached to the guy, but its not a golden rule. The real deal is that sometimes yes you can be their first but the only thing you did is open the door.

Dont expect to own her just because you were her first, and most of all dont feel better than the other guy just because he didnt get anything in two years. That dosent mean anything at all. SO what i would recomend you is to forget that, being her first or second or third is not what you should relay on.


On wanting to regain her attraction towards you my friend... yes theyre many ways, methotds you can try, for example: flirting with other girls, pretending you dont care too much, being ****y etc.... THAT IS JUST PRETENDING.. and its not going to a fact that she will regain attraction or higher her IL. What you should do is move on, next her, approach other girls and most important forget to impress her o make her miss you or try to pretend something you may not be just to gain her attention. Be aware that she is not the last girl on this planet.
 
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Originally posted by Morphiex
do the usual flirt with other girls when around her.... MAke ****y funny remarks, try to mention some sexually things she liked casually into the convo but only to her, dont go and do that **** when ur in a group.... Just make her a litle jeleous and **** like that... Play it hot and cold sometimes.... act like u really want her sometimes and then act like that u have no interest, but dont do this too often...
thats all i can think of right on the spot cuz of lack of information about the relationship amongts u her, u her and her friends, u and her friends,
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I haven't seen or talked to her for 3 days now. I am thinking if we are even gonna be friends now...

I told her I have a new gf and showed a pic of an ex (2 days after break up). This might make her jealous.

Our relationship was real good before she left. The only thing that pissed me off was that she did ecstacy weekly. I am kinda friends with her best friend and have her number...but I do not hang out with her without my gf.
 
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Originally posted by Hurrican
I haven't seen or talked to her for 3 days now. I am thinking if we are even gonna be friends now...

I told her I have a new gf and showed a pic of an ex (2 days after break up). This might make her jealous.

Our relationship was real good before she left. he only thing that pissed me off was that she did ecstacy weekly. I am kinda friends with her best friend and have her number...but I do not hang out with her without my gf.
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HaHaHa you were dating a JUNKIE. Pfttt oh please guys help me get back with this junkie.

Idiot

Ninja out
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by HalfAddict
Start tryin to get with her Best friend...
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her best friend is with her boyfriend of 8 months or something...

Any real suggestions? I need help god .... it
 
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