"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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crystalcore32236

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I have been reading a lot of threads and truly I have understood that it is better just to date girls that are highly interested on you. However can anybody tell me how in earth is possible to increase the interest level of a girl that had it high and lost it when she works and seats next to you 8 hours a day. Hard to ignore as have to work together.
Is it really possible?
After two months of ignoring her we went out and kissed and touched but the interest seems not high enough to f... her again.
Any idea cause this seems to be a lose - lose situation.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I think the move here is to spin more plates. Seems like this door is closed. Once you start dating other girls you won't care about this one any more.
 
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Ok but let us just say it is a personal commitment and a challenge ro get her back. What to do?
 
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