Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Recovering from ONEitis

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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bigmil

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meet another girl ASAP. If you're hurting real bad call up a buddy and go to the stripclub. Get drunk and get a lapdance or two. It'll ease the pain temporarily.

Just get out and start meeting girls. Be aggressive with it -- get 3 or 4 numbers that you can call so that you're weekends won't be lonely.

Im assuming you just broke up with the chick you had oneitis with?
 

Freddy1

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bigmil said:
meet another girl ASAP. If you're hurting real bad call up a buddy and go to the stripclub. Get drunk and get a lapdance or two. It'll ease the pain temporarily.

Just get out and start meeting girls. Be aggressive with it -- get 3 or 4 numbers that you can call so that you're weekends won't be lonely.

Im assuming you just broke up with the chick you had oneitis with?
Good suggestions dude!

Yeah I had ONEitis recently with this girl and I am hurting badly. I just have to break out of. Its a death trap for me.
 
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