"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Recovering from ONEitis

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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bigmil

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meet another girl ASAP. If you're hurting real bad call up a buddy and go to the stripclub. Get drunk and get a lapdance or two. It'll ease the pain temporarily.

Just get out and start meeting girls. Be aggressive with it -- get 3 or 4 numbers that you can call so that you're weekends won't be lonely.

Im assuming you just broke up with the chick you had oneitis with?
 
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bigmil said:
meet another girl ASAP. If you're hurting real bad call up a buddy and go to the stripclub. Get drunk and get a lapdance or two. It'll ease the pain temporarily.

Just get out and start meeting girls. Be aggressive with it -- get 3 or 4 numbers that you can call so that you're weekends won't be lonely.

Im assuming you just broke up with the chick you had oneitis with?
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Good suggestions dude!

Yeah I had ONEitis recently with this girl and I am hurting badly. I just have to break out of. Its a death trap for me.
 
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