I thought this would be an interesting topic. After missing the chance for a first kiss(by not being very attentive) with a girl whos interested is there any chance of recovery? I got one of those OH S**T moments the other weekend. The girl has been getting cold with me ever since. Shes starting to warm up again, any good tactics?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Recovering from missing a chance to kiss
- Thread starter trverb
- Start date
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
basically before i go in for a kiss the best thing to do is to isolate her somewher (be it your house, car, whatever) and use kino while looking into her eyes. For example if you are walking and you two are alone put ur arm around her, then look at her, if she gives u good eye contact move closer slowly stop and kiss her. its basically just a smooth progression. usually if you just lunge in for a kiss without setting it up it can go bad, i think thats what you are worried about. basically the kino and eye contact set up for the kiss.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
