recovering AFC stuck on "getting a girl"

[anonymousguy]

Hi guys,

It's me again. Let me introduce myself.
I found www.fastseduction.com in september 2004. This majorly changed the way I thought and the way I acted. I was the role model of a nice guy. After 6 months I had enough of the "player board" and I switched to Don Juan www.sosouave.net . It fits my need to find the girl I like.

My status now is a recovering AFC. I am able to get phone numbers, get interesting conversations and dates.
BUT! I am not able to get a kiss close or to get into a relationship with girls.

I'm doing something wrong, but I don't know what. I believe it is the fact that I am too nice and have a lack of self-confidence. I let women play with my heart and I don't see it.
I know I should be more a "bad guy", but the problem is I don't like it.

At least my game improved now, and I have my first female friend who I can ask professional counsel and a lot of potential "female" friends.

What tips can you give me? Please don't say anything like DJ bible, because I already read it several times. Perhaps I misunderstood what was written in the bible. Then you should try to clarify it to me.

Greets,
anonymousguy

 

[The Juan and only]

I know I should be more a "bad guy",

Its not so much that you need to be a bad guy/jerk, just stop being a pushover and stop letting women control you - set your boundaries. Also, you must have the confidence to seize opportunities when they present themselves.

 

[SDBmania]

Originally posted by The Juan and only
Its not so much that you need to be a bad guy/jerk, just stop being a pushover and stop letting women control you - set your boundaries. Also, you must have the confidence to seize opportunities when they present themselves.

Very good advice. That was something I had trouble with too and still do on occation.

 

[librito]

original poster said.................................At least my game improved now, and I have my first female friend who I can ask professional counsel.


that is the biggest mistake you can make. you never, and I mean never seek dating or relationship advise from women. thats where you are ....ing it up right now.
if you wanna be saved from hell would you go to the devil for advice on how to act so you wont go to hell?
answer this question yourself.
come to this site more often, ask the devil less often.