"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Reconnecting with old HS acquaintance, best approach?

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Made some small chat with this girl the other night via facebook walls. She's become very attractive compared to highschool and I'd like to set up a date/meet up with her. She goes to school about a hour away so distance wouldn't be an issue but I'm curious what's the best way to go about this?

I was thinking of sending her a message saying basically:

"Hey what's up, we should meet up sometime, catch up and hang out. What is your number? Talk to you later"

Something tells me it's kind of creepy getting a number off facebook. Any ideas?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sounds good to me. I don't think getting numbers off facebook is creepy at all. How close were you two before you went separate ways?
 
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Not very close I was friends with her partying friends but she was kind of quiet and reserved. TBH she was kind of *****y in highschool and I don't think she had much fun.

Like I said I had a small chat with her on the walls. She got kind of *****y with me so I kind of put her in her place which I think she liked as she became really nice after that.
 
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Shot her a message saying, "Hey what's up, we should hang out sometime. What is your number? talk to you later"

No response in two days. Me thinks I didn't build her interest too high to start with before asking for number. Oh well.
 
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