"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hi,

I would like to get some books. I heard much about "mastery". What do you think about it? Or can you recommend me other good books or products or principles that will help a little to be better with women and/or life?

Thanks
Sedaty
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i think David D is better for putting you in the right frame of approaching women while mystery focuses on how to act and what to say to them and little tricks.

i like what David D preaches. it's very positive and helpful. and he has a way of saying that just makes it make a lot of sense. it's all about ebbing a man with yourself. not taking crap from women. showing them that you will not be messed with. ****y + funny is part of it but not a huge part. he focuses more on being in the right frame then just acting ****y funny all the time.

****y funny is just a blueprint of how to interact with women. sometimes it should be used in high levels, and sometimes in lower levels.

David does not take crap from women. He’s very direct and in tern he’s very alpha. He’s not afraid of getting rejected, if a girl rejects him for being too direct with them (if he tells them “I don’t like flaky people, are you going to answer this phone number?”) then he will know that the girl was not good enough for him. Weak girls are for weak guys.

to become a effective PUA, one needs to read and listen to David D.

David’s book double your dating is a good start. I would scour the internet for his seminar. It’s like 10 hours long and spans 3 days. It’s all video taped and available on torrent sites or newsgroups. It’s a very helpful tool.
 

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You have to read BOTH Mystery and DD

The Venutian Arts Handbook
and
Double Your Dating

are both required reading
 

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Swinggcat or Real Social Dynamics are better.

I like Swinggcat's frames/meta-frames concepts, and RSD is good just due to the fact that Tyler Durden pretty much absorbed and resynthesized a lot of the stuff out there (speed seduction, mystery method, ****y/funny, etc)
 
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