"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Recommend me some movies, please!

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Which are some movies that kick you into gear to get better and pursue all of your goals?

I'll start with three of them:

Zorba the Greek
There are moments throughout the movie when you want to hate on Zorba, but his contagious passion for life ultimately wins you over and overshadows any flaws he may have.
You end up loving Zorba and loving life.


The Bucket List
When this movie ends you are guaranteed to at least ponder about what you want to achieve and what really matters to you.


Fight Club
A classic that many of you have seen. This movie makes you aware of all the stupid sh!t that gets us sidetracked in life. Some may find it hard to watch, but I believe that it's worth it.


Please continue the list in a similar fashion.
Thanks!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I might come back to add some movies (since that's what you asked for haha) but the first thing that came to mind for me is the show Entourage. Nothing else makes me want to succeed more than seeing how they live on that show.
 

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the pursuit of happyness.

I watched that when i had no home and was crashing at friends places. I remember at that time a peanut butter sandwich was to me a 5 star meal. I always thought i understood hunger and hardwork but when i i really was poor and hungry you learn so much more.

This is one movie that teaches you to believe in yourself, rely on yourself, and persevere through all the bullsh1t life throws at you because in the end, there is light at the end of the tunnel.
 

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'Shutter island' if you look at the bigger picture other people could perceive you in a diferent then the way that you perceive your self without knowing it.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If you are interested in one out right now, go see:

The Company Men

The Kings Speech
 
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