"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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OK folks---- After reading this article please give me a thread title. I will change it accordingly.

Zoe Saldana's Husband Takes Her Surname — Despite Her Objections

Zoe Saldana and her husband have a modern romance.

Two years ago this month, The Guardians of the Galaxy actress secretly tied the knot with the artist. Now, the 36-year-old beauty reveals that — in a contemporary twist — Marco Perego Saldana adopted her surname after they exchanged vows.

"I tried to talk him out of it," Zoe admitted in the July issue of InStyle magazine. "I told him, 'If you use my name, you're going to be emasculated by your community of artists, by your Latin community of men, by the world.' But Marco looks up at me and says, 'Ah, Zoe, I don't give a s--t.'"



Truth be told, Marco is probably just happy Zoe is remembering his name these days. When she was pregnant with their twins — Cy and Bowie were born in November — she sometimes called him by something else altogether.

"My husband's name is Marco, and there have been a couple of times I've called him Michael," she said during an interview on E! last year. "I have like Dori brain from [Finding] Nemo — I reset like every three seconds."

Name mix-ups aside, Zoe said now that they've welcomed their sons, they've become even closer as a couple.

"Since I've been with Marco, I've been lowering my guard," she told InStyle. Finally when we had our boys, I looked at my husband and I realized: I was meant for you and you were meant for me. I've always felt comfortable around men as long as they were friends. Now I finally feel comfortable with my lover. I don't want to be separate. I want my church. I want to live inside the religion of our own little family."

The Church of Saldana is a sweet, sweet thing.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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well it do says its a artist so maybe he want to use her name to his gain, or he is just a idiot
 
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