"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hi guys! Hows it going? I hope your doing great!

I was active in a forum years ago and now Im back and would like to improve a bit more. My weakest part is starting the conversation, once I opened everything is running smothly. So I wonder what suggestions you have for me. I really like the natural mentality and approach of the game, and im also really in to self-development. I've read pook, juggler and swingcat in the past and I loved it, but still im having a really hard time walking up to a random women and start talking to her.

Ive searched around some and it seems that John Alexander, Vin DiCarlo, Brad P or RSD could be something that suits me, but im not sure. Ive also heard about Charisma Arts, Love systems and PUA Training. Im overvelmed. There is so much material out there and its been along time ago since I've read anything about seduction so I'd love to hear your opinions!

Take care, and wish you an amazing weekend!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Book of Pook
How to become an alpha male
Weapons of mass seduction
The power of now (this will change your life, be careful )

Those to get you started.
 

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Anything RSD
And David DeAngelo's "Approaching Women" is great for both inner game and applicable strategies.
 

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If you really trying to come up in the world and make money, this is the only book that I know that truly show you, the book writer is my friend

Daniel Freeman's "How to make a dollar out of fifteen cents"


I put that book there because money and power get you any woman of your choice, all that pua crap is trash

also another great book that will surely get you women is

Tariq Nasheed "the art of macking", he is the guy that the pua guys stole all their work from, his books even came out before neil strauss the game
 

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Fatal Jay said:
If you really trying to come up in the world and make money, this is the only book that I know that truly show you, the book writer is my friend

Daniel Freeman's "How to make a dollar out of fifteen cents"


I put that book there because money and power get you any woman of your choice, all that pua crap is trash

also another great book that will surely get you women is

Tariq Nasheed "the art of macking", he is the guy that the pua guys stole all their work from, his books even came out before neil strauss the game
I disagree; I've met very wealthy people who have zero game. You need to educate yourself in all aspects, not just wealth accumulation.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Book of Pook
Dj Bible
The Power of Now
48 Laws of Power
 

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Dale Carnegie - How To Win Friends and Influence People

Manuel Smith - When I Say No I Feel Guilty

Nathaniel Brandon - The Six Pillars of Self Esteem

Work on your inner game, and outer game will naturally follow. Men have been banging women for hundreds of thousands of years. You might say it's programmed into our DNA.

If you're confident enough to just start talking to girls about any old thing, you'll learn, on your own, what works and what doesn't pretty quickly.

Heck, you don't even need the books listed above. Just grab your balls and start practicing. Crash and burn, learn from your mistakes, and keep improving.

You'll be a natural in six months with enough practice.
 

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Vice said:
I disagree; I've met very wealthy people who have zero game. You need to educate yourself in all aspects, not just wealth accumulation.
You don't need game when you have wealth,lmao.

You think bill gates has game? Dude could have any woman on the planet.
 
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You don't need game when you have wealth,lmao.

You think bill gates has game? Dude could have any woman on the planet.
Yet he doesn't capitalize on it. You picked a guy who's been married for years. Instead of banging random slores, he donates his money to charitable causes. Wealth can be a blessing and a curse.
 

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Vice said:
I disagree; I've met very wealthy people who have zero game. You need to educate yourself in all aspects, not just wealth accumulation.
This is true. It's called anti-game. I've seen plenty of rich dudes scare away girls. Having a lot of money doesn't hurt but it's only one piece of a pie. Money doesn't give girls orgasms.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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My list included:
1. Harry Potter.
2. The Power of Now.
3. Second Glance.
 
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