Reclaiming Male power in the Viagra Age

[Joe The Homophobe]

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You've heard of the "Stone Age," the "Iron Age" and the "Information Age." This is the "Viagra Age" the era of male impotence. Television commercials say that 1/3 of all men suffer from "erectile deficiency" attributed to high blood pressure, prostate cancer, or diabetes. I suspect that, often, the culprit is feminism. Women should empower men but for a long time they have been doing just the opposite. Instead of taking the little blue pill, men need to reclaim their masculine power.

Feminism has created a power struggle as women covet the male role and want men to take the female one. A friend describes his married friends as "wolves circling one another." The problem is always the same: women want to supplant their husbands. In the workplace, a man can accept leadership from a competent woman. But in the intimate sphere, a man who takes orders from a woman is not a man, and usually can't perform like one. He sees his mother and feels like a child again.

Power is synonymous with masculine identity. Impotence literally means "powerless." We would never say a woman is "impotent." Rather, she is "infertile" or "frigid." A man cannot love if he does not have power. He expresses his love by exercising his power. Women take away male power and wonder why they aren't loved.

The gesture of a man opening a door for a woman illustrates how men and women should relate. We all know a woman can open a door herself. But when a man does it, he is affirming her femininity, beauty or charm. When she accepts this gesture, she is validating his masculine power. This trade, woman surrendering her power in exchange for man's love, is the essence of heterosexuality. In order to develop emotionally, men and women need this mutual validation as much as sex itself. Sex is an expression of it.

Under the toxic influence of feminism, women open their own doors. Neither sexs' identity is validated, neither matures emotionally. Men feel redundant and impotent; women feel rejected and unsexed.

The following are some practical tips to help men restore their power.

* The best way to select a woman is to make a demand. If she clicks her heels, salutes and says, "Oui, mon Capitain," she's eligible. On a summer day, I met a young woman who was rollerblading. I asked her to take off her sunglasses so I could see her face. She obeyed. That was a positive early sign. Courtship is the process by which a man earns a woman's trust (love) so that she will accept his leadership. Men express love in terms of benevolent power and perceive women's love as her acceptance of his protection. Similarly, women want a man to make her feel secure.

* Feminism misleads men to pursue "independent" women and to reject the women they actually need. If a woman wants to be "independent," she doesn't want you. If her ad says "Are you man enough for me?" or "I'm high maintenance," decline the challenge. Life is too short. Marriage is not about independence. It is about two people becoming one and that only happens when a woman surrenders to a man. Men should focus on women who "look up to" and empower them. If you're looking for your "equal" you're probably still looking for yourself.

* Men give their power to a woman in hopes of getting love, sex and beauty. For a while she is flattered, but ultimately she cannot respect a man she can control. She wants to be enlisted not petitioned. She wants a man to have a wholesome vision of his life, in which she has an essential place. This vision need not be elaborate or complicated. It could involve a life focused on mutual values and interests, like children, music, church, or the outdoors.

* There is a book entitled: Why do I Think I am Nothing Without a Man (1982) The author, Dr. Penelope Russianoff, tries to help women overcome this feeling. The truth is, this feeling is grounded in reality. Self-fulfillment for a woman is when the "self" is her husband and children. Women are G-d's creatures, they self sacrifice and serve; in return, they are deservedly cherished. If the "self" is her personal satisfaction and career, she is already full and filled. Her husband and children are secondary.

* A man wouldn't be attracted to so many beautiful women if he asked, "to which woman can I entrust my spirit?" Similarly, the sex act is very invasive for a woman. The man's spirit invades her being. She is empty and receptive. At the same time as he takes her in his arms, she gives him emotional and spiritual protection. He expands into the space she creates by her acceptance. A man and a woman are like a sword in a sheath. He strengthens her. She shelters him. They become one.

In conclusion, a man can reclaim his identity by recognizing that his power is non-negotiable. It represents his ability to love that is the essence of his masculinity. A man should focus on finding a woman who is receptive to him. She may be behind a counter rather than an executive desk. A single man should be aggressive and quickly sift without concern for rejection. He must be prepared to offer the right woman a profound relationship. She is not interested in "hooking up." Single men are so passive and juvenile that single women today are climbing the walls.

Men and women could be "equal" and open their own doors. But, when men open doors for women, it affirms them both, and represents something higher and infinitely better.

Once again, another great Article by Henry Makow Ph.D.
Click here to read articles from Makow on femenism/heterosexuality/male female relationships.

 

[Joe The Homophobe]

good advice or not? i think yes

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

The article was right on!!!! It is the "Natural order of things"

 

[Lost In Translation]

i liked the article


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[Joe The Homophobe]

any more comments?

 

[cinephile]

I have to concur. Basically, this is the dynamic that DJ' s are trying to achieve. All the techniques and philosphy stated on So Suave are just about getting women back to this point. If we remember this first, and act on it appropriately, 90% of the problems involving women would disapear. I guess it could be simply broken down to:

1. Remember, you are in charge, so act like it.
2. If she does'nt like it, get rid of her.

I think pretty good advice in general

 

[MetalFortress]

Very excellent article.

 

[spider_007]

i nominate this article for the BIBLE.

Reason: It clearley explains THE NATRUAL RELATIONS BEWEEN MAN AND WOMAN. And it is something every man needs to know.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Originally posted by spider_007
i nominate this article for the BIBLE.

Reason: It clearley explains THE NATRUAL RELATIONS BEWEEN MAN AND WOMAN. And it is something every man needs to know.

Yes, and my thread, "The natural order of things - sexuality explained and defined!!


I read the article again - it is a must read!!! If a woman doesn't give you (the man) the power then assert your manhood and keep your dignity and kick her to the curb and onto the street and under a moving bus!!!

 

[undesputable]

Originally posted by spider_007
i nominate this article for the BIBLE.

Reason: It clearley explains THE NATRUAL RELATIONS BEWEEN MAN AND WOMAN. And it is something every man needs to know.

this is very good stuff. but its already in the bible.... this goes excatly along the lines of Anti dumps ideas.

 

[Joe The Homophobe]

Originally posted by cinephile
I have to concur. Basically, this is the dynamic that DJ' s are trying to achieve. All the techniques and philosphy stated on So Suave are just about getting women back to this point. If we remember this first, and act on it appropriately, 90% of the problems involving women would disapear. I guess it could be simply broken down to:

1. Remember, you are in charge, so act like it.
2. If she does'nt like it, get rid of her.

I think pretty good advice in general

very well putl. Most people here make things too complicated but they really aren't.

 

[PVSSY-EATER]

I agree.....after studying this site...women are by far...THE EASIEST AND MOST SIMPLEEST THINGS TO FVCK AND GET WITH....why in the hell do we make things so difficult? haha, well, put in this way, Dr. Phil has to stay in business.....hahaahaha

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Originally posted by Joe The Homophobe Feminism has created a power struggle as women covet the male role and want men to take the female one.

I covered this a while back in another article, but I'll re-post again for sake of discussion here:

The Fragile Male Ego is one of the biggest lies ever to be floated out by the 'Today's Woman' crowd. Men could care less what a woman earns or what she does to earn it - it's simply not a factor in attraction for us - we don't take a woman's status or wealth into consideration, all she has to be is hot. That is a guy's one condition for intimacy, physical attraction. She's gotta be hot - whether she makes six figures or is in the pit of poverty is irrelevant in attraction. Oprah and Star Jones' husbands still have to get aroused, and all the money in the world wont be any better an aphrodesiac.

Status, wealth and the other rewards that result from 'professional' life are conditions women have for men in attraction. That's not to discount men being physically attractive or other conditions, but women have far more conditions for their intimacy than men, and these conditions are predicated on characteristics that prove a man as a good provider for her and any future offspring's security. These male characteristics (or sometimes just the prospects of a man attaining them) are defined by women as having value and are therefore attractive. Attractive enough to make a man with these qualities one to be competed over with other women. Women define what is masculine, they define what male traits have value for their investment of intimacy. Men define what is feminine, they define what female traits have value for their investment of their provision of security and meeting the condition criteria women place on them for their intimacy.

"Empowered" women in the professional realm would like the conditions for attraction to be predicated upon their professional status (wealth), individual merit and/or aspects their personal integrity, and a whole list of esoteric qualities, but they still fight against men's basic impulses - she's-go-to-be-hot! If a woman is attractive a man is more than happy to have her foot the bill regardless of comparative incomes, it's just icing on the cake for us, but this is analagous to a woman who marries a rich guy who also happens to be good looking.

The 'Today's Woman' crowd love to use this pseudo-fear that men are expected to have in response as to why guy's ought to be ashamed of themselves for basing their attraction of the physical by blaming it on 'men's fragile egoes' or how they 'feel threatened by professional women'. It comes down to an expectation and entitlement from their 'professionalism' that men should redefine their own attraction based on what women find attractive in the masculine.

The ideology then grinds it's teeth at the men 'qualified' to date professional women for having a tendency to hit on women far younger, less 'powerful' and (surprise) generally in much better physical shape than the 'professional' they should be dating. For this they're called 'infantile', 'immature', or the behavior is regarded as a character flaw, or a desire to relive his youth with a 'trophy wife' - interesting that this term should come from the same faction to complain about the evils of objectifying women. All the man is doing is obeying his primary impulse, she has to be hot!

As most women bemoan, men have a tendency to see women as sex objects in attraction. Women have a tendency to see men as success objects. The problem with this 'professional woman' mythology is that professional women want to be success objects, but nature keeps confounding this effort.

 

[Visceral]

So women b!tch about men being men? BIG FVCKING DEAL!

Here's a story: When a beta male elephant seal tries to have sex with a female elephant seal, she resists. She makes a big scene howling and screaming and trying to get away, hoping the alpha male will come by and get this creep away from her.

What did you expect? She doesn't want to bear the offspring of an inferior specimen.

Naturally, the alpha male - the biggest, fattest, meanest, and therefore the sexiest one on the beach - waddles over, kicks the beta's ass and then has sex with the female. Do you know what she does? She howls just as loud and makes just as big of a scene trying to resist him.

Women of all times and places have hated pvssy beta males, and thanks to feminism, they now also hate masculine alpha males - and so the moral of the story is: stop looking for womens' approval and do whatever the Hell you want.

 

[undesputable]

Originally posted by Visceral
So women b!tch about men being men? BIG FVCKING DEAL!


Women of all times and places have hated pvssy beta males, and thanks to feminism, they now also hate masculine alpha males -

femenist like little pvssy beta males, bc they can do whatever the hell they want with them.

 

[penguin]

Re: Re: Reclaiming Male power in the Viagra Age

Originally posted by Rollo Tomassi
The problem with this 'professional woman' mythology is that professional women want to be success objects, but nature keeps confounding this effort.

Gotta love nature. Regardless of changing social conditioning, different media messages, you can always trust good 'ol nature to keep things the way they're meant to be.

That's why women say they want "sweet" etc. and they really don't. Media tells them what they should want, but nature tells them what they DO want

 

[Joe The Homophobe]

As most women bemoan, men have a tendency to see women as sex objects in attraction. Women have a tendency to see men as success objects. The problem with this 'professional woman' mythology is that professional women want to be success objects, but nature keeps confounding this effort.

professional women should be avoided like the plague! yes you can go out with one if shes hot and your a top class dj to the point that she becomes so into you she starts buying you stuff (top djs can pull this off with women). When it comes to marriage, avoid them like the plague!