"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Good Information

Simply, Thanks for passing it along.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Listening:-

Listening to people attentively is another source to being charismatic and glamourous without cameras and spotlights. You want them to know you are interested in what they are saying, really focus on connecting emotionally with people. You can be a charismatic person because you are a lover of people it is because you want them to know they are truly important.
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That right there sums it up for me. If you can do this, your popularity and people's respects for you will go through the roof. I speak from experience.

A real quality tip!!
 
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