"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Desdinova

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I service medical equipment. Regardless of who's employed, 5hit breaks down. Demand is increasing for equipment due to the baby boomers retiring and their health deteriorating. More 5hit breaks down, more service needed.

I made a damn good career move at the right time. I used to work in a manufacturing plant. I'll bet sales have taken a nose-dive since I left that 5hithole.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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speakeasy said:
Garbageman.
Where I live the city automated the garbage pick up several years ago.

Anyway, the real problem is if you don't already have a recession proof job, you'll probably be in a long line of applicants to get one. There's not enough jobs for the amount workers, and that was true even before the recession.
 
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