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Banned
Me
-20 year old undergrad @ a public u
-Live alone in apt in big city
-Total AFC before this year. only kissed 4 girls ever, only 1 of which i had any interest in, never even seen nor touched a boob, never had a gf
-6 mo. ago i got into daygame and started cold approaching like a MADMAN. malls, grocery stores, train station, street, employees, milfs, anywhere and anyone i want.
-huge spike in confidence, social skills. no sexual results past kissing until a month ago but making huge progress
-although i do go to college parties and have plenty of college friends, i definitely prefer a more "adult" lifestyle of doing interesting things on weekends, going on dates during the week, and bars/clubs at night.
Her
Call her Sky. 23 year old grad student, very pretty but doesn't know it. Good sense of humor, super sweet, loves cuddling, makes an effort, all things that i like.
I met Sky at a bar beginning of Sept. Talk for 20 min, REALLY hit it off, we love each other, like her so much I don't give her more than a kiss on the cheek and just take her number to take things slow. Next day, text her, set up date until she reluctantly she tells me she just moved here 2 wks ago and has a bf back home.
I'm crushed because I never connected that well with a girl so quickly. I tell her that I'm cutting contact w/her because I can't just be friends w/her.
Then...
I cut contact. Until two weeks ago, I've got a couple new plates so I randomly decide to text Sky out of the blue. She's real excited to hear from me and suggests we hang out. So we do.
Boom, so many signs of high interest from her. She's ready to kiss me w/in 30 minutes of the date starting, I go for it soon after. Make out, grab food, she agrees to come to my place.
Watch a little netflix, then bring her to my AWESOME new memory foam queen bed, 90% of clothes come off. First time I ever take a bra off, I fail at it so she takes it off herself lol. I touch boobies for the first time in my life haha. She doesn't seem to want to go further, so I honestly tell her this is the farthest we go because I like her and want to take things slow.
Smooth Sailing
So past couple weeks, everything's going real well w/her. See each other 2-3 x a wk, text every day, she sleeps over a couple times, deep late night talks, lots of making out, shows high interest (almost always complies w/anything i say or do, makes time for me even when i can tell she's kind of tired). Sunday she even shows up at my place and drops off cookies she made.
Still slow sexually. Which is fine for me because it's my first time doing ANY of this stuff. Let's just say I blew a load for the first time w/her this monday, and no orifices were involved.
Last week I went out and sarged to keep the AFC in me from taking over. Picked up two solid plates, texted them but no meetups yet.
Sky's great. I actually didn't want to see anyone else. At this point in my life I want a relationship because I've never had one, and I want to lose my virginity in one. Although I really like her, I assure you I do not have one-itis. I have had one-itis PLENTY of times and I know this is not it.
But...
I fwcked up. I stupidly gave too much weight to the advice of one of my closest female friends, who said it was soon enough for me to ask Sky to be my gf, and that I should do it in a "cute/special" way. Now my friend is not an idiot, she is one of the smartest girls I know and gave me very useful pointers in bed and also was the one who was pushing me to keep talking to other girls after seeing Sky even though I didn't really want to. It's my fault for misreading the situation.
Last night I had plans w/Sky, I broke them. Then I surprised her at her place real late w/hot cocoa (inside joke) and a rose. I tell her "I don't want to see anyone else right now. I want you to be my girl"
To cut the whole thing short, she tells me she's not seeing anyone else but is not looking for anything serious cuz she just got out of a relationship (yes, yes, I understand what that really means). Says she doesn't want to see anyone here, but if she were to go back home...
I play it cool enough, say "I thought you might feel that way, but I just want to tell you where I stand."
So.
Time for me to pull back immediately right? Hit up those other girls, cut Sky down to once, maybe twice a week, but otherwise act pretty much the same way?
Plus, don't bring up ANY relationship stuff unless she does right? I know the DJ convention is the man escalates sexually and lets the woman handle all the relationship stuff. I strayed from it, I messed up.
The Others
3 Plates, in order of desirability:
1. Really cute girl I cold approached while she was working at clothing store. Got a first date w/her tonight
2. Cute gamer girl I cold approached last week. High interest, no first date yet. Attractive in very alternative way that only some guys appreciate (pink hair, lip piercings). I've never gone out w/an "alternative" kind of girl before but I kinda like this one. I like games, she likes games.
3. 27 year old asian girl, super short, went on one date w/her before seeing Sky. She's alright, nice but not terribly interesting. Seems to have pretty strong interest in me.
OTHER QUESTION
I do NOT need to mention/bring up to Sky that I'm seeing other girls, right??
-20 year old undergrad @ a public u
-Live alone in apt in big city
-Total AFC before this year. only kissed 4 girls ever, only 1 of which i had any interest in, never even seen nor touched a boob, never had a gf
-6 mo. ago i got into daygame and started cold approaching like a MADMAN. malls, grocery stores, train station, street, employees, milfs, anywhere and anyone i want.
-huge spike in confidence, social skills. no sexual results past kissing until a month ago but making huge progress
-although i do go to college parties and have plenty of college friends, i definitely prefer a more "adult" lifestyle of doing interesting things on weekends, going on dates during the week, and bars/clubs at night.
Her
Call her Sky. 23 year old grad student, very pretty but doesn't know it. Good sense of humor, super sweet, loves cuddling, makes an effort, all things that i like.
I met Sky at a bar beginning of Sept. Talk for 20 min, REALLY hit it off, we love each other, like her so much I don't give her more than a kiss on the cheek and just take her number to take things slow. Next day, text her, set up date until she reluctantly she tells me she just moved here 2 wks ago and has a bf back home.
I'm crushed because I never connected that well with a girl so quickly. I tell her that I'm cutting contact w/her because I can't just be friends w/her.
Then...
I cut contact. Until two weeks ago, I've got a couple new plates so I randomly decide to text Sky out of the blue. She's real excited to hear from me and suggests we hang out. So we do.
Boom, so many signs of high interest from her. She's ready to kiss me w/in 30 minutes of the date starting, I go for it soon after. Make out, grab food, she agrees to come to my place.
Watch a little netflix, then bring her to my AWESOME new memory foam queen bed, 90% of clothes come off. First time I ever take a bra off, I fail at it so she takes it off herself lol. I touch boobies for the first time in my life haha. She doesn't seem to want to go further, so I honestly tell her this is the farthest we go because I like her and want to take things slow.
Smooth Sailing
So past couple weeks, everything's going real well w/her. See each other 2-3 x a wk, text every day, she sleeps over a couple times, deep late night talks, lots of making out, shows high interest (almost always complies w/anything i say or do, makes time for me even when i can tell she's kind of tired). Sunday she even shows up at my place and drops off cookies she made.
Still slow sexually. Which is fine for me because it's my first time doing ANY of this stuff. Let's just say I blew a load for the first time w/her this monday, and no orifices were involved.
Last week I went out and sarged to keep the AFC in me from taking over. Picked up two solid plates, texted them but no meetups yet.
Sky's great. I actually didn't want to see anyone else. At this point in my life I want a relationship because I've never had one, and I want to lose my virginity in one. Although I really like her, I assure you I do not have one-itis. I have had one-itis PLENTY of times and I know this is not it.
But...
I fwcked up. I stupidly gave too much weight to the advice of one of my closest female friends, who said it was soon enough for me to ask Sky to be my gf, and that I should do it in a "cute/special" way. Now my friend is not an idiot, she is one of the smartest girls I know and gave me very useful pointers in bed and also was the one who was pushing me to keep talking to other girls after seeing Sky even though I didn't really want to. It's my fault for misreading the situation.
Last night I had plans w/Sky, I broke them. Then I surprised her at her place real late w/hot cocoa (inside joke) and a rose. I tell her "I don't want to see anyone else right now. I want you to be my girl"
To cut the whole thing short, she tells me she's not seeing anyone else but is not looking for anything serious cuz she just got out of a relationship (yes, yes, I understand what that really means). Says she doesn't want to see anyone here, but if she were to go back home...
I play it cool enough, say "I thought you might feel that way, but I just want to tell you where I stand."
So.
Time for me to pull back immediately right? Hit up those other girls, cut Sky down to once, maybe twice a week, but otherwise act pretty much the same way?
Plus, don't bring up ANY relationship stuff unless she does right? I know the DJ convention is the man escalates sexually and lets the woman handle all the relationship stuff. I strayed from it, I messed up.
The Others
3 Plates, in order of desirability:
1. Really cute girl I cold approached while she was working at clothing store. Got a first date w/her tonight
2. Cute gamer girl I cold approached last week. High interest, no first date yet. Attractive in very alternative way that only some guys appreciate (pink hair, lip piercings). I've never gone out w/an "alternative" kind of girl before but I kinda like this one. I like games, she likes games.
3. 27 year old asian girl, super short, went on one date w/her before seeing Sky. She's alright, nice but not terribly interesting. Seems to have pretty strong interest in me.
OTHER QUESTION
I do NOT need to mention/bring up to Sky that I'm seeing other girls, right??