"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Recently single and looking to get back in the game.

Darwin_Child

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Not just the dating game, but the game of life itself. I don't have a lot going for me at the moment. Fresh out of school, still looking for work in a bunk economy, without a car (cuz I can't afford one) and out of a year and a half relationship that was going no where.


Just figured I'd introduce myself. I'm really going to make the best of this place; I stumbled across it the other day and figured I'd register. It's time for a big change in my life.


Well, hey guys. Nice to meet you all.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Julian

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welcome bro
 

Ridingthelightning

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Where did you go to school and what for?
 

Darwin_Child

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I went to school for Culinary Arts out in San Francisco.

I'm in North Carolina now.
 
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