"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Recently single and looking to get back in the game.

Darwin_Child

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Not just the dating game, but the game of life itself. I don't have a lot going for me at the moment. Fresh out of school, still looking for work in a bunk economy, without a car (cuz I can't afford one) and out of a year and a half relationship that was going no where.


Just figured I'd introduce myself. I'm really going to make the best of this place; I stumbled across it the other day and figured I'd register. It's time for a big change in my life.


Well, hey guys. Nice to meet you all.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Julian

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welcome bro
 

Ridingthelightning

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Where did you go to school and what for?
 

Darwin_Child

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I went to school for Culinary Arts out in San Francisco.

I'm in North Carolina now.
 
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