"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Recent Drama and knowing she won't forget me is the best

Vantagepoint34

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So I outright Married this nice girl out of High School and we have good memories. But when we Divorced it was easy since we did everything by the church. But when I wonder is where did she get her logics she must have done everything by impulse. The person that took my place has two stds and I covered everything about the guy creeping into the relations. We settled everything about kids through Ivf so I didn't care but the fact she deadended her self makes me wonder why would she be so self destructive and end up with someone with two stds one their plate? Was she damaged goods to begin with? Should I expect her back? It's like I'm prepared to receive her with full damaged ego. I mean I went all the way with her and we had kids so maybe that's why she didn't want a fulfilling relationship with a healthy person. Like a backburner relationship with a biker tone. Any advice or as you can see I have moved on because I'm not writing in a good term about her.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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She saw what other girls had and wanted some of it. She’s just rebelling by being dirty and getting with the most lowdown rotten SOB she can find because she was just on one end of the spectrum for so long. Now she wants the other end.
 

Vantagepoint34

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Thanks for the input. She probably is rebelling. Sad part she was never damaged goods just over time she made her self the low part spectrum. She was just another Illogical woman making decisions that I'm still scratching my head over. Like did you really just settle with some one that is unhealthy and with two Stds. Maybe I'm wrong since I read that half of the country actually has two STD's so maybe me being healthy is just out of the ordinary.
 
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