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Receiving interest in public places

jhonny9546

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Hi! Johnny here!

I was wondering how normal it is for you guys to receive interest and signals when you're in common public places.

It's not the first time at the supermarket or a shopping mall that women turn around and stare at me for a second when I enter the room, and they always do that second look, that second glance before leaving.

Just yesterday, two foreign girls, 10 cm taller than me, literally attacked me.

We ended up exchanging numbers and will go out this week.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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ended up exchanging numbers and will go out this week
You neither know that for a fact, nor is it efficient. If you lay just one chick a week that's just 52 chicks per year, at the maximum rate, if you get a new one every week and don't skip. What you want to do is fclose that same day, within 5 hours or so, preferably within 40 minutes. This is both efficient, and avoids drop outs that wanted to but didn't make it for some reason.

Besides, you meeting expectations. High interest with equality high interest and ideal outcome. The other way is same thing chicks do, give numbers and then don't go through with it, they might think it's the same exact thing. Best to fclose asap.
 

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just 52 chicks per year, at the maximum rate,
Considering the time, energy, and money this would take, a man would become a total retard-loser if he did this.
 

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the time, energy, and money this would take, a man would become a total retard-loser
Exactly. That's why you must not wait. For waiting in situation like this is lowering IL. You must strike iron while it's hot, same day.
 

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Happens constantly when I am not paying attention to them or generally giving a shvt.

The second I start looking for any kind of validation I become invisible.
 

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Considering the time, energy, and money this would take, a man would become a total retard-loser if he did this.
Thank you.

As blasphemous as it may sound on SS, only losers have so much time on your hand . 52 women per year means you have nothing else going on in your life. Sounds great on paper, but in reality this will be hell. Let alone the chances of being falsely accused increase x 52 as well... because you need 52 slvts,who tend to be crazier than normal women.

I think anything more than 12 per year is quite the accomplished..personally Im satisfied with4 to 6 per year.
 
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This is maybe a little off topic, but I noticed something recently. When I am out running errands by myself, usually I will get some looks and it's not unusual for a girl to smile at me or whatever. But then I noticed the other day when I was out with my girlfriend, women wouldn't even look at me, it was like I wasn't there. I thought that was interesting since according to PUA Bro Theory, pre-selection is a major attraction factor, so it should be the opposite. But it was more like "He's taken, don't bother".
 

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This is maybe a little off topic, but I noticed something recently. When I am out running errands by myself, usually I will get some looks and it's not unusual for a girl to smile at me or whatever. But then I noticed the other day when I was out with my girlfriend, women wouldn't even look at me, it was like I wasn't there. I thought that was interesting since according to PUA Bro Theory, pre-selection is a major attraction factor, so it should be the opposite. But it was more like "He's taken, don't bother".
PUA Theory is right.

Most likely you weren’t attentive to their looks when you were out with your girlfriend,
 

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Most likely you weren’t attentive to their looks when you were out with your girlfriend,
I don't think I acted any different in that regard, that's why I noticed they weren't looking at me.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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This is maybe a little off topic, but I noticed something recently. When I am out running errands by myself, usually I will get some looks and it's not unusual for a girl to smile at me or whatever. But then I noticed the other day when I was out with my girlfriend, women wouldn't even look at me, it was like I wasn't there. I thought that was interesting since according to PUA Bro Theory, pre-selection is a major attraction factor, so it should be the opposite. But it was more like "He's taken, don't bother".
That could be it.

I recall a night last year I which my wife and I went to a fancy restaurant and other women looked at her as if they wanted to kill her (not joking).
 

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I recall a night last year I which my wife and I went to a fancy restaurant and other women looked at her as if they wanted to kill her (not joking).
Lol, you must be quite the alpha beast. But if this happens again, I'll start to check out how they look at my lady.
I mean, really, a lot of guys will get jealous when they see another guy out with an attractive woman, I'm sure it's the same with women sometimes.
 

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Lol, you must be quite the alpha beast
I’m surely not. I think I’m modestly attractive. My body shown here is actually mine. And I’m 5’10”. I believe some women do get hostile towards other attractive women sometimes, especially in night life.
 

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And I’m 5’10”. I believe some women do get hostile towards other attractive women sometimes, especially in night life.
I'm 5'10" also. I agree that women, being emotional creatures, can get jealous and hostile towards each other. Look at the Caitlin Clark phenomenon, for example. If you observe female relationships, they're often on and off again, because they will spend time together but then someone will get mad and they'll grow apart for awhile, then later they might start hanging around together again.

As for night life at my age, I liked a quote from Professor Proton (played by Bob Newhart) on Big Bang Theory. Sheldon goes to his house and knocks on the door, and the Professor answers the door in a robe, clearly having been woken up and says something like:
"Sheldon, it's 7:30. In a few hours I've got to get up and pee, and then wander around the house all night".
:D
 
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