"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Receding on corners

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Evening folks looking for advice on my hair receding on the corners. I'm 30 years old still have a full head of hair but receding at the corners what's the solution for this? Can I get the corners fixed with some sort of transplant or is it too late any advice would be greatful. Andy. Snapchat-1922082030~2.jpg
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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rogaine
finnasteride
nizoral shampoo

get on them ASAP so you maintain your hair. I'm getting a transplant done myself but i also have a thinning crown. Your situation is so mild where a transplant makes zero sense. Your hair is excellent for a 30 year old man

the key is maintenance
 

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rogaine
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get on them ASAP so you maintain your hair. I'm getting a transplant done myself but i also have a thinning crown. Your situation is so mild where a transplant makes zero sense. Your hair is excellent for a 30 year old man

the key is maintenance
Thanks for the response big Dave 17, where can I get these products are they prescribed or can I buy them of the shelve?
 

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The real solution is self-acceptance. Nothing wrong with a little maintenance to see if it helps, but acceptance of what is natural to men eliminates years of angst.
baldness looks horrific on white men
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Thanks for the response big Dave 17, where can I get these products are they prescribed or can I buy them of the shelve?
rogaine is over counter

propecia(finnasteride) is prescription and so is nizoral shampoo
 

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Agree that at least a certain amount of acceptance is needed here. Hairlines and thickness change with age. It happens.

If you decide to fight it with finasteride and rogaine, prepare to use them for many years, as any lapse or discontinuance will reverse any effects they have made. They help, but they’re not wonder drugs…
 
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Jason Statham?
Yeah, I’ll say baldness is fine or even great on white men. Largely depends though on their head shape and facial features. Some guys can pull it off no problem, while others it just does not work. Usually fat detracts overall, but I’ve seen even bigger guys occasionally pull it off. Bone thin cheeks aren’t good as well. Don’t want to look like skelator.

Some girls will be turned off by it, but just as many will be fine with it or turned on by it. I recommend keeping it shaved clean however - a strong receding hairline usually detracts or makes you look older (imo).
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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