"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Receding Hairline at 18

TheWayOfAllFlesh

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Ok I'm 18 and have quite a receding hairline

It's not majorly noticeable but now that my close friends have brought it up, its starting to pick away at my self esteem and it's affected my game as I haven't approached for a long time, fearing they will be put off by my hair
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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f283000

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oh and start washing your hair in the sink. Having that hot water falling down on your scalp is not a good thing. I haven't washed my hair in the shower for months ever since i got a little scared about my own hair! now I wash it in the sink with cold water sure it can be a little bit of a hassle but hey do anything that might help your cause.
 

Rho

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post a pic so we can see,

but otherwise maybe it is just the shape of your hairline and now that you are reaching an age that it typically starts happening for some, you are getting paranoid.

even if the hair is a finer at the hairline, doesnt mean you are losing it could just be the way it is.
 

Demonicale

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My brother has started to lose his hair at 33, now i'm losing mine..well it's getting thin on top..and i'm only 25.

but if it get's too bad then i'm just gonna go bald...no point in wasting money on products that promise things and never deliver.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Leporello

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They have hair-cloning now.
 

Mr_rogers

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Don't worry about it dude. My hair started thinning out at the front last year and it really doesn't matter. Just take care of yourself to the best of your ability and you'll be fine.
 

pua1989

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i have always had really thin hair and what seems like a receding hairline, but in reality for me, my hair kind of starts a little farther back than usual if that makes sense...are you sure you just dont have that? i think theym ight be called culdasacs or something. its really only noticeable if you have long hair so if it really bothers you just buzz your hair or somethin..right now i have my hair in a mohawk
 
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